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It depends what you consider normal. My husband is 5'10' date=' 185 pounds and all muscle. He eats portions that are not much bigger than mine. He has the capability to pig out and does on occasion, but for the most part he eats sparingly. He surprisingly doesn't eat junk food or sugary things. It's not because he watches it. He just doesn't like the stuff.

His normal is something to aspire to.[/quote']

Agree but I doubt most consider him normal...

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I guess the meanings of words like 'normal' and 'average' become blurred when we live in the western world where most people are overweight or obese.

It sounds like Catracks husband eats how people SHOULD eat. Weather it's common, average or normal for me is pretty irrelevant.

I'm more concerned about how I should eat, not how others are eating (including friends and family), not how the population eat (most of us are fat) and I certainly don't want to be average! ;):)

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Personally, I think you should just divorce him... that low down ass :)

I get that you, like EVERYBODY Else on this forum has challenges with eating habits. And its nice to have a place with understanding people who do not judge you while you vent (even if you say things that you dont mean). Im sure that you love your husband and he didnt mean to rub it in. :)

Maybe next time for the sake of all the opinions on how you should feel you should just call him a "hole" lol.

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