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Cowgirljane- that's what I do as well

I like to just steal a little off everyone's plate. I'm also guilty of telling my husband, "oh no you don't want a potatoe for your side you want beans" lol because I want Beans Hehe

Hopefully they still love me :)

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I'm over this topic but it keeps popping up on my notifications. As a pre-sleever with eating disorders up the who-ha I'm don't like being reminded that others are grossed out by what I'm doing...

And those of you passionately defending "the cause" your just keeping the topic going.

Please Let it be archived. Everything's been said already.

So I was walking my dog the other day and......say that reminds me. Does anyone have a recipe for high Protein, non-carbonated beer?

Wait.....I hope you didn't get another notification. Sorry.

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Here's the way I see it - feelings are feelings. Feelings aren't right. Feelings aren't wrong. Feelings just ARE. We can't control how we feel. We CAN control how we choose to act.

If people feel sick watching others eat huge amounts' date=' so be it. If they don't run over to the over-eater and whip their plate away, or death stare them into oblivion, or projectile vomit in disgust - then what does it matter?

I am choosing to listen. Accept. And move on.[/quote']

Amen!

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So I was walking my dog the other day and......say that reminds me. Does anyone have a recipe for high protein' date=' non-carbonated beer?

Wait.....I hope you didn't get another notification. Sorry.[/quote']

Yeah ,so sorry to bother you.

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I'm over this topic but it keeps popping up on my notifications. As a pre-sleever with eating disorders up the who-ha I'm don't like being reminded that others are grossed out by what I'm doing...

And those of you passionately defending "the cause" your just keeping the topic going.

Please Let it be archived. Everything's been said already.

If ppl have something on their minds and want to say something let them I just find this thread and so have other ppl we have a rt to our opinions .. If u don't like the topic I say don't read anymore ...

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99.9% chance your opinion has already been stated. And you don't have to vocalise an opinion to have one...

Go ahead keep the flames burning hot on this train wreck of a thread where everybody gets their heads ripped off for having an opinion...

First thread ever to make me sick! Might go throw up my disgusting dinner and see of that makes anyone feel better...

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99.9% chance your opinion has already been stated. And you don't have to vocalise an opinion to have one...

Go ahead keep the flames burning hot on this train wreck of a thread where everybody gets their heads ripped off for having an opinion...

First thread ever to make me sick! Might go throw up my disgusting dinner and see of that makes anyone feel better...

Haha I guess thats why you keep talking ...

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I have moved this thread to Rants and Raves. Once again, I am requesting that the personal attacks please stop.

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Haha I guess thats why you keep talking ...

TAKE THE LAST WORD ebonisekim! JUST TAKE IT! State your opinion! You have a "rt" so do it!

What is it?! You are disgusted by what others eat?

you aren't "disgusted" per se, but are "amazed" or "awed"?

You don't look at what others eat?

You think OP is an idiot?

You think someone else is an idiot?

What is soooooo fascinating about this thread?! Is it the strife the mayhem the hatred the vitriole?!

I have a "rt" to my opInion and it is the opinion of others who were also tired of the bickering and meanness.

BUT GO ON....

We all wait in apprehension for what lightning bolt of intelligence will somehow redeem this topic!!!

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TAKE THE LAST WORD ebonisekim! JUST TAKE IT! State your opinion! You have a "rt" so do it!

What is it?! You are disgusted by what others eat?

you aren't "disgusted" per se' date=' but are "amazed" or "awed"?

You don't look at what others eat?

You think OP is an idiot?

You think someone else is an idiot?

What is soooooo fascinating about this thread?! Is it the strife the mayhem the hatred the vitriole?!

I have a "rt" to my opInion and it is the opinion of others who were also tired of the bickering and meanness.

BUT GO ON....

We all wait in apprehension for what lightning bolt of intelligence will somehow redeem this topic!!![/quote']

Mrs cook I'm not disgusted by what ppl eat I never said that in fact I never made one comment about what ppl eat this is what I said ppl keep there surgery a secret and then turn around and say they need to get help for there eating habits .. But ppl might not kno about having help out there and for the ppl that's sleeve should share the info to other in effort of helping someone else .. You have the wrong somebody I'm not even sleeved yet ..

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I have moved this thread to Rants and Raves. Once again' date=' I am requesting that the personal attacks please stop.

Sent from my iPad using VST[/quote']

Out of curiosity, is there a feature on this forum for a user to block a thread & thus all notifications that stem from such thread? If not it might be a good idea.

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All they have to do is click "unsubscribe" and they will no longer receive notifications for that thread.

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I am disgusted by others because I see how I was. I have not forgotten.

When you all sit down to eat with others which I assume you have to do at some point, you can't tell me you don't notice what others eat and how much and how fast. t doesn't make me hate them but I am hyper sensitive to choices they make.

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