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DeLarla vs. PhotoNut

LBT Court

I figured you folks could use a new place to drink because you’ve worn your jokes to the bone and back. I could set some ground rules but I'm not sure anyone would follow them since there's a huge lack of that rule following' round yonder.

This is the case of Lisa vs. Susan. The rules are simple:

1. State only true and undeniable facts

2. Provide exhibits (that means show us the thread)

2. Leave out emotions, name-calling and sarcasm

3. If you are not a direct party to the case, go start your own P'Nut Gallery thread for comments, cheese and drinking so those of us with analytical minds can enjoy the board along with you.

Lisa: I bring before the board your basic case of stalking and harassment, which began soon after Susan and her Dawg joined LBT. They became quick pen pals, but when Lisa notice Susan and Dawg had the whole board heated up, she decided to stop responding to Susan's e-mails. Soon Susan pleaded for an explanation, so Lisa sent a respectable response that she'd been involved in enough LBT heat in the past and would prefer to remain out of it, which hurt Susan's feelings. Susan then cut and pasted private e-mails for the whole board to see while clicking on Lisa's profile and following her to every thread with sarcastic comments just to "stir the pot." Other members, along with Lisa, made numerous responses asking first, then begging, then telling her to stop, but she did not. Lisa sent PMs to moderators asking they "moderate" by asking Susan to stop interfering in otherwise friendly threads just to instigate ugliness and arguments. Moderators did not stop Susan's stalking, so Lisa shut down her DeLarla account and left LBT.

During Lisa's absence of over a month, many LBT friends remained in contact, and some began contacting Lisa to say that Susan refused to stop verbal attacks against my name, even months after Lisa was gone. Susan attached herself to a sick fascination with Lisa that would not permit her to refrain from continued harassment. Lisa's mother was severely ill, she purchased a business, then her best friend passed away, at which point she took it to the Tarot, who said, "Don't let anyone get in your way of the fight, you must prove a point, if not for yourself, than for the sake of a social group."

Good enough for Lisa, but since DeLarla was shut down, she was forced to open Lisa Bones. NOTE - LISA ANNOUNCED TO THE BOARD AND THE OWNER OF THIS NEW TRANSACTION. Other than when Moderator Penni and Lisa came up with BigChix, Lisa has never opened any other accounts other than DeLarla and Lisa Bones, which were both unjustly suspended.

Lisa has been wrongly accused of multiple screen names, yet no evidence from the accusers can be produced. Meanwhile, Lisa knows the owner of the board realizes Psusan is a real person that is not Lisa, and No.one is another separate person that is also not Lisa, nor is No.one Psusan. Anyone able to keep up?

Susan takes the immediate opportunity to continue lurking, stalking, harassing and bringing ugliness into every single thread or post that mentions DeLarla and Lisa Bones. Claws come out, clueless members who "think" they understand make ridiculous assumptions, and everyone starts drinking in front of the newbies.

Lisa then sends Susan a very stern and mighty ugly PM telling her to BACK THE F OFF, OR ELSE. After Susan reported said threatening e-mail, she then posted it to the entire board but then deleted it because she's very confused.

All the while Susan cries and wails and whines that she's being attacked. All the while Susan's friends coddle and support her wacky efforts to have Lisa ousted from LBT. Susan is very jealous and wants to be the top poster, but Lisa must be gone first.

Lisa asks more times than Lisa can count for anybody with any level of intelligence to explain why Susan stalks me. Lisa proves with FACTUAL EVIDENCE that Susan is the one starting every single problem associated with Lisa's name, yet not one shred of factual evidence can be produced.

In closing, after working in a law firm the past decade, it's no secret why Susan or her friends and allies cannot produce evidence that Lisa is the problem. Instead they use diversion tactics, which apparently allows them to sleep better.

Now let's see if Susan will grace us with her lovely presence and her drinking entourage.

CAN YOU PEOPLE PLAY MY GAME FAIRLY BY THE RULES? Something tells me you can't.

Susan:

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Kelly, before you start kicking everyone off that's involved I would ask that you read thru the posts carefully. There have been a lot of people whose name appears over and over and over again.. Not because they have been posting mean and hateful things, but because mean and hateful things are being posted ABOUT them.

People are sick of seeing my name. I am sick of seeing my name. But I am not attacking anyone, nor am I being insulting or cruel, nor have I broken any LBT rules. I am simply asking someone, anyone, show me where Ive been hurtful or cruel or broken LBT rules and I will take responsibility for that.

If by that you see me as someone "involved" then I guess that is your right as a moderator to say so. But I really didn't appreciate seeing you say I should take my followers and leave. I have been strongly repremanded by a Moderator for even suggesting that someone please go on and leave quietly after they had said they hated LBT and were leaving but remained on the boards ripping people apart. (sound familiar?)

I am only reading this thread, because it was NEW when I just logged on. Then I realized this was the reason why the August Gone for Good Club thread was gone when I returned after a vacation.

:) :) :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

I feel so bad for CanadianSunshine, who took on a big job as leader in August, then had this mess ruin her month. I haven't seen CanadianSunshine post since this happen, and I would hate that this caused her to leave LBT. Likewise, there are many who are scared enough of the Internet to start, that they would leave without saying a word.

As the person leading the September Gone for Good Club, I ask everyone to keep their non-weight issues off that thread. The Club has been a lifesaver for me as I am sure others on LBT. We need to be positive and focused on the GOAL.

From what I can see, everyone involved in the mud is on LBT -- even if they had to create a new name and profile. Which makes LBT security suspect. So be careful about the personal information you post, if you are thin-skin.

This is the first day of a new month. Why don't we all take a long, hot bath and come back with this behind LBT and commit to a positive attitude.

I left Obesity Help, because there was so much bad behavior. We all are wearing big girl panties (that we hope are shrinking in size), so let's stop the playground behavior and support each other.

LapBandTalk is a great site. I absolutely love everything about it. I have lost 74 lbs because of EACH of you. And I need EACH of your support to reach my goal.

Let's move forward.

:) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)

I know what needs to be done and it is to ban everyone involved but, do we really want to start kicking people off a board that could really be useful?

Please ban everyone, it's only fair. I don't know any of these ladies but if you ban Fitter, you MUST ban Photo Nut or whatever the hell her name is. She must go too. She is not innoncent and she has done nothing but fuel the fire IMHO. This isn't a popularity contest, you have rules for this board now live by them please.

Hi,

i just posted this on another thread and wanted to add it here as well:

Hi Beacheegirl,

I dig what you are saying. ITs been all drama and soap opera here. I have been coming to this board for about 3 years now and I personally know Lisa and about another dozen bandsters personally. Had drinks with them, visited them at a Vegas Bash, celebrated NSV's, commisurated with eachother, suffered together etc... You have to understand this kind of bond. Some of the new folks (or quasi new) really need to appreciate the kinship that some of us had that really got this board up and running and spent lots of time helping those who needed help both with tough love and also kindness.

Delarla (Lisa) rocks. She is a true friend to me and many others and she has been ousted wrongly. There are some folks here who should get the axe, but they haven't. The post under the guide of being helpful, but their tongues are double edge swords and they continue to fuel fires. If it were me, I would also defend my position. I would never let anyone walk on me or talk poorly of me.

If it wasn't for this board, I never would have been as successful as I have been with my band.

Babs in TX

334/180 ish

-150 ish

Kelly, before you start kicking everyone off that's involved I would ask that you read thru the posts carefully. There have been a lot of people whose name appears over and over and over again.. Not because they have been posting mean and hateful things, but because mean and hateful things are being posted ABOUT them.

People are sick of seeing my name. I am sick of seeing my name. But I am not attacking anyone, nor am I being insulting or cruel, nor have I broken any LBT rules. I am simply asking someone, anyone, show me where Ive been hurtful or cruel or broken LBT rules and I will take responsibility for that.

If by that you see me as someone "involved" then I guess that is your right as a moderator to say so. But I really didn't appreciate seeing you say I should take my followers and leave. I have been strongly repremanded by a Moderator for even suggesting that someone please go on and leave quietly after they had said they hated LBT and were leaving but remained on the boards ripping people apart. (sound familiar?)

Oh, nevermind these people, I'll be your friend!

I smell somthing...and its BS. Happy I think you stepped in somthing on your way in.....just sayin.

I got wind of something going on but had no idea.

I spend about 1 hour a day on this board.

I never saw any of the posts in question. I wonder if most of us never even knew there was a verbal rumble going on, or if we stumbled on to this stuff, just went to another thread. I read this one because I saw PNut in the title and she's always had great things to say.

I could be wrong, but my guess is the people who engage in this brouhaha either directly or by just reading are the minoirity.

Most of us just want to learn more about being banded.

Susan, I simply stated to start your own website and then come her for lap band support did not tell you to leave for good...reread what I wrote and DON'T twist my words!!

Hey, Jacqui, Lisa has been banned again. But, I am sure she will be back in some other personality. How many did Sybil have again?

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