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I'm 7 weeks out now and wanted to know when can you introduce alcohol into your lifestyle. Sometimes socially theres pressure to have a drink or 2 and i'm not sure if it's too soon for me to drink yet.

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I asked my doctor at my 2 week post-op appointment, he said it was fine to have one, but I probably would feel drunk in one drink. I have had a couple drinks, just a couple socially the past few weeks. Thursday will be 5 weeks post-op. I am a big drinker, well was, and don't feel anything but full and guilty after an adult beverage. I decided I'm going to wait 40 days until I go to the bahamas before another one. I have been finding now that I'm sleeved when I give in to myself the food/flavor sucks so the tiny bit I take in is enough to satisfy my mind and stop cravings. In the past though on a diet giving in ment opening the flood gate.

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I was told to wait 3 months for risk of bleeding. I had my first glass of wine on the day lol

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Thanks guys, i guess i'll try one drink and see how it goes. Do you feel ok after drinking? Does it hurt your sleeve or feel weird?

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At two weeks out I went to Happy Hour with friends and ordered cranberry juice. The bartender made me a vodka cranberry instead - and a strong one. I didn't realize the mistake. One sip and let me tell you that sucker burned all the way down! At three weeks I had a sip of frozen strawberry margarita and it didn't bother me at all. When you do start, start weak and start slow, and stay away from carbonated mixers or beer.

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I tried some wine 4 weeks out and it burned, did not feel good. Waited and tried again 9 weeks out and was fine then. You feel the alcohol much faster, so be careful and sip slow.

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I might try a small drink this weekend just to see if it sits well with me. Thanks for the replies this forum makes things so much easier.

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I hear you girl !!! Every celebration there is always alcohol involved with my friends and family . This weekend my friend is having a house warming BBQ tomorrow evening of course with alcohol and next weekend my family and I are going out of town cause my little sister is graduating from college so I'm sure we will Celebrate after with dinner and drinks . So I'm thinking to just have one drink at each event surely it won't be too bad. :-/ I went to church this past Sunday and went to communion and without thinking about it I accidentally took a pretty good sized drink of the wine it went down smooth but I did get a lil buzz a minute there in church but it didn't last too long haha !!!

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I've had wine, martinis, and mixed drinks. Not all at once, probably just one of each over 3 or so weeks. The wine was probably the best going down and pefectly normal to sip. I had a pomegranate martini and later realized it was probably too acidic and made my side hurt. I ordered Water and vodka at a bar, I couldn't do carb drinks and don't like juices. Next time I should bring a flavor packet. I felt nothing, not drunk or buzzed or tipsy. I did take forever to finish one drink and have been a prize winning drinker since hs. My doc had no problem with this. Just take your time and get a DD just on case.

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I think i'll try vodka and Water. The calories will be low too. From everyones experiences it seems like taking it slow and seeing what suits ur sleeve is best.

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My surgeon is adamant about one year! I don't drink anyway, but I can see how some people would be really bummed!

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6 months for me!

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My NUT was very adamant about no alcohol for a year. So I asked the doc and the reason is that it will slow down weight loss. I have had a small glass of wine and one rum and diet coke with no problems.

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You know, I don't think my doctor mentioned a time period when I could have alcohol. He just said start off small and try doing it at home first because the way your body will react to it will be different than pre-op. I'm not a big drinker so this isn't an issue for me. However, this time of year for me is very stressful (end of semester grading) and it's usually the time when I do pull out the vodka. I'm a bit hesitant as my stomach is having a few issues with certain foods and I'm not sure if I really want to test it just yet. LOL

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So over the weekend i went out and had a glass of wine and a vodka based cocktail. I spread my drinks over the course of 5 hours and i was perfectly ok. Once in awhile we all got to let our hair down.

Next week i'm off to cape town for my sisters hen week so hopefully i can stat focused.

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