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Is Sex Better?

Okay--just wondering if after having the band and losing some weight--does sex get better, stay the same, gets worse (lord I hope not)? Do you think it is because you feel better about yourself, have more energy, or something else? Just wanting to know what my DH and I have to look forward to!

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Now DH says I feel "flatter". Before he said it was like he was lying on a hump. (wasn't said to me to be mean, he was trying to tell me that he could feel my belly had gone down the best way he could LOL!)

Definitely better though. It was good before, but now, better! I can't wait to see what it'll be like 100lbs from now. Woo Hoo!!

For sure!!!!!!!!!!

I was just saying in another post I feel so horny with this weight loss. Im usually horny anyways but I seem to feel more sensitive...and I really can be into it and more in the moment because Im feeling better about my self and in general.

SEX YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MUCH BETTER!!!

And the closer to goal I get, the more things I am willing to try! Here I am 35 years old and just now having the confidence to do things lots of high schoolers probably do. It's a great process of discovery!

  • 9 months later...

Definately better!! But watch out, I think I flipped my port during an extremely wild romp...But it flipped back a week later....LOL!!:clap2:

3 weeks post-op and I love how our romantic life has gone from pretty great to VAVA VOOM - It does not bother me when he touches me now-- even where I used to dislike my large tummy roll - that is getting smaller. More confidence, and more energy and more flexibility - it turns me on more to know he loved me big and now he will love me not so big -- he is a keeper!!

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