Ok so I am in the process of getting a band. There is this one thing that came to mind and it's regarding performing oral sex on a man.

I hope this doesn't come across as slutty but I am worried that when I do this I might gag and that can hurt my band. Is that possible?

I happen to like doing this specific act of love and been known to gag in the past. I dont mind the gagging itself because it never hurts and I don't throw up, but if I have the band and gag, can it slip or somethin?

If I'm crossing the line please feel free to lock/delete this thread!

Yuck! God Man!

I think the swallowing is an ego thing, and I'm a guy.

Makes the guy feel like he is in more control, that he can "make" her do that.

I'm not saying that there aren't sensations involved, but most of them come before that act (to be crude) of swallowing.

It can be an excellent experience when it is pleasurable to BOTH partners, and if part of the act reviles one of them, then the pleasure is removed.

Do what feels right and good. Don't like it, don't do it. there are still many ways to increase pleasure without making half of the couple feel sick.

JP....who are the "they" that call you "dr." heeeheee

ROFLMAO!!!!

Ok..

For me, it's just the idea that ...they're alive! lol!

Now I'll never swallow but I will however imagine/pretend that my mouth is a catcher for the yankees.... glove in hand.. kinda imagery.

No complaints so far.

Its Alive! ALIVE!!!

Oh man that is funny! you don't like the idea of the little guys swimming around your stoma? LOL Is it just creepy, or is it that they are doomed to never do what God made them to do? Their short little lives completely failed and worthless.

Just a play off of Sidney Poitier, "they call me Mr. Tibbs", since Telly said I should be Dr. Phil.

Great flick, BTW, where he replayed the character from "In the Heat of the Night", one of my fave movies.

Back to sex, it is largely about ego. making your partner have plasure makes you feel good, it acts on your ego, and making your partner pleasure you has the same reaction, makes one feel that they are in control (also ego).

many of us on here will find changes in our libidos due to wieght loss. remember, fat stores hormones, and they are released when we lose (thus many women having cchanges to their cycles) and our improved self images don't hurt. there is also the fact that as we get healthier, we feel more energetic. Overall, weight loss can enhance sexual experiences, if both partners are up to the "challenge", and new drives are taken into consideration.

My spelling is terrible, and I hate to edit posts,. Sorry for the glaring errors.

jp you're fired.

Bummer. and I was being good too.

There goes the talk show offers.

You were being good, in a sex thread no less. I think that deserves a chocolate.

Am I the only one that thinks Tired Old Man's avitar is the funniest thing ever on this thread?

Every time he posts it cracks me up.

Am I the only one that thinks Tired Old Man's avitar is the funniest thing ever on this thread?

Every time he posts it cracks me up.

Nope, you aren't the only one. :guess

You were being good, in a sex thread no less. I think that deserves a chocolate.

Sugar free.

Now there is an aftertaste that i don't care for.

So you are saying that the woman should eat the yogurt before blowing her man? or she should eat it while blowing him? Or he should dip it in there and let her go to town. I have heard of lick-em-aid but that is a bit crazy!!

I am saying that the woman should either put a spoon full of yogurt in her mouth every few minutes or a spoonful on the man's penis every once in a while.

As far as swallowing goes, I enjoy it when my women does it, but some girls don't, so I have never forced one (by begging) to swallow. Then again, some women don't consider the act consummated until and unless they swallow. Each person has their own desires, likes and dislikes. Some get to like what was once a disgusting thought.

The first time I ever heard about giving a female head, I said that it was the nastiest thing that I ever heard of, but one night, many, many, years ago (about 6 BC, I think), I was drunk and she was beautiful, she asked and I have never stopped loving it.