Ok so I am in the process of getting a band. There is this one thing that came to mind and it's regarding performing oral sex on a man.

I hope this doesn't come across as slutty but I am worried that when I do this I might gag and that can hurt my band. Is that possible?

I happen to like doing this specific act of love and been known to gag in the past. I dont mind the gagging itself because it never hurts and I don't throw up, but if I have the band and gag, can it slip or somethin?

If I'm crossing the line please feel free to lock/delete this thread!

.......Anyone else have a cutesy way to ask for a little som'thin-som'thin?

Wanna lick?:kiss or gimme some

I have a cutesy name for it.. I'll walk up to him and go "kissy peeenuus??!!"

Anyone else have a cutesy way to ask for a little som'thin-som'thin?

I don't bother asking. Early on I learned he'd never say no...

What man would say no to that?!?!?!?!:clap2:

I don't bother asking. Early on I learned he'd never say no...

that is so true. the only time he said no was the day after our daughter was born. he was in the shower with me at the hospital incase i got weak or dizzy. Anyone ever notice they have those nice cusioned seats in the hospital shower? hehehe. I sat down, and realized that everything lined up perfect.

but he got out of the shower.

FUNNY, you are good and freaky huh?

LOL About as freaky as they come. DH worries about me when I get to goal. I might be too much to handle. LOL

I don't agree with him, but it is a nice thought!!

If I want some ...all I do is this..

I walk over to wherever he is and I whisper in his ear while caressing his nipples, arms and crotch.. lol

I say.. "Baby, I wanna F*ck..like right now" and that always gets an immediate response. But the dressing up and role playing makes him uneasy. He gets all shy, scared and embarrassed.

Ok....

whoa. This is some thread, huh?:faint:

How about those Nationals? :nervous

(baseball... think baseball...)

But the dressing up and role playing makes him uneasy. He gets all shy, scared and embarrassed.

What guy doesn't feel uneasy in a fench maid's dress? :heh:

Haha well since we are putting our business out there, I'll share.

No, more like ...me dressed up like a total prostitute right before bedtime. That was recently so maybe I'm just too cocky for him right now. The thing is, I feel really good about how I look now, I feel sexier. I worked hard for this feeling and I wanted him to know that I'm all about him and will always be. I wanted him to know that not only was this weight loss for me, but it was for us and I want him to enjoy me as he couldn't before (b/c I was wayy too shy when I was heavier). I may need to simmer down now for a little bit.

:clap2: way to go..

Ahhh...

Nope. Nothing to say here.:speechles

Don't wanna get in trouble.

Telly that is awesome! It is probably a huge change that he is not used to yet, but I bet he will come around

If he doesn't come around then what do I do? Suppress all of this love? LOL???

I want to do crazy things. Things that you can't or shouldn't talk about. Anyone have any advice on how to "break in" a man?

If he doesn't come around then what do I do? Suppress all of this love? LOL???

I want to do crazy things. Things that you can't or shouldn't talk about. Anyone have any advice on how to "break in" a man?

Carefully. Maybe try a little of what's on your mind and see how he reacts?