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akwright68    114

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My husband is losing his mind. I just got home from work and he asked me if we were going out for sushi tonite. I reminded him that I started my pre-op diet and that I would go with him, but would not be eating (trying to compromise). He then gets angry and says that just because I am changing my diet it shouldn't affect him and walks out the front door. Half an hour later he comes back home and doesn't say he is sorry, but instead decides to remind me that I am very lucky to have been approved for this surgery and I need to stick to the diet. He then tells me that I need to have more willpower and take this seriously.

I literally started laughing from the absurdity of the whole situation, which of course got him upset. I think that maybe he is a little stressed about all of this and does not know what to say or do. On one hand I think he has lost it, and on the other I know I need to try and help him express what he is really feeling about this.

Our families go through the stress and anxiety that we do. I have had the last seven months to digest and work through all of it, whereas he is just being hit with it now.

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Meldom03    10

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I'm set for feb and I have all the worries excitment scared happy thought that you have. Good luck!

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WMHB (Dave)    26

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My husband is losing his mind. I just got home from work and he asked me if we were going out for sushi tonite. I reminded him that I started my pre-op diet and that I would go with him' date=' but would not be eating (trying to compromise). He then gets angry and says that just because I am changing my diet it shouldn't affect him and walks out the front door. Half an hour later he comes back home and doesn't say he is sorry, but instead decides to remind me that I am very lucky to have been approved for this surgery and I need to stick to the diet. He then tells me that I need to have more willpower and take this seriously.

I literally started laughing from the absurdity of the whole situation, which of course got him upset. I think that maybe he is a little stressed about all of this and does not know what to say or do. On one hand I think he has lost it, and on the other I know I need to try and help him express what he is really feeling about this.

Our families go through the stress and anxiety that we do. I have had the last seven months to digest and work through all of it, whereas he is just being hit with it now.[/quote']

From a man's point of view, he needs to relax, treat you nicer, and hurry up and get on board!!

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Cindy2013    99

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Totally been doing good on this liquid fasting!! Day 4 done of 14... Keep on trucking!! Surgery is scheduled for the 11th!!

Hey me too, my date is the 11th. But today I am starving. How is your day 6 going? Just 9 more days...

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TheNewMeTrini    26

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My surgery is the 11th also!! Day 6 is going okay, its easier than the first couple days. I can tell you this is one of the hardest things I have ever done but we got this girl!! I just keep my focus on the reward in the end. Just think how skinny we are going to be- hard work and dedication! Good luck to you!! <3

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asr2468    25

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Hi guys I was banded on January 28 I wanted to say good luck to you all! You each others biggest supporters!!( along with those banded!) feel free to reach out ask questions. I may not have all the answers because I'm just starting my journey but I'm on the other side!! Good luck everyone! And remember this is sooooo worth it for a health new life!:) <3

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ZHRVK    2

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2/11/13. Here!

I am on day 8 of 14 per op Meal Replacement shakes ...today is the hardest day....

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akwright68    114

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I am sorry, I hope that it gets easier for you.

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Smallwcw    7

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Hello everyone! I'm a "newbie"..... Am scheduled for the 14th. I'm on day 5 of the liquids and am so proud I made it through a Super Bowl get together.

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NurseKelly    43

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I have a surgery date of Feb 21st! Good luck everyone!!

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Onamissionn2013    50

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Hello everyone! I'm a "newbie"..... Am scheduled for the 14th. I'm on day 5 of the liquids and am so proud I made it through a Super Bowl get together.

Welcome! I'm on the 14th too! Pre-op is going well for me. I just keep remembering the end goal! :)

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