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What's the most annoying thing your partner does? My boyfriend freaking puts his dirty laundry RIGHT next to the basket! Lol, could be worse, but why? Just.. why?

Cutest thing? He grabs me in his sleep and pulls me close...aaand then snores in my face. Lol. Or when he wakes me up by petting my hair or face and saying "Good morning beautiful", or how literally every day this year he's told me that I was gorgeous or beautiful or sexy.. Without make up or hair done, he actually gets mad when I primp, he's a natural, tshirt and jeans type of man. I think my ex told me that I looked good maybe a handful of times during the 3 years, but none while I was natural, so it sure is nice! It hasn't made me conceited or anything, but it's definitely made me more comfortable as myself. =)

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Girl you lie! You know your conceited! Jk! Isn't it wonderful to be adored. My hubby of 20 yrs is still like that. As for annoying habits well... Where do I begin.

I'm missing those habits right now though because he got a call from his family in Italy the day before my surgery that his mom was in a coma from a virus and that evening he was on a plane. I've been going it alone and I could use his cheers right about now.

Oh yeah did I mention that he cheers me on with a thick Italian accent.. Oh yes, it doesn't get better than that!!

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OK, you both are...............

I have been with my hubby for almost 20 years and he does a lot of stuff that annoys the crap out of me but I know i do a lot that annoys the crap out of him. But the most annoying thing he does now, is he thinks I'm a sleep and I hear the potato chip bag tussling and the crunch of the chips. Now that annoys the absolute crap out of me.

But on the other hand, he has been my biggest supporter (except when he told me my thighs looked bad) but he paid for that comment dearly.

i will keep him, he loved me when I was fat and he still loves me know shrinkles and all. ;)

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Ok ladies, I will be married 40 yrs next month and like Jean McMillan writing Bandwagon, I could write a book "The Ways I Stop From Killing My Husband".

Laundry next to basket too, trash next to trash can(biggest rrrrr), I'm hungry, I'm hungry after a huge Breakfast, ice cream, Cookies, peanuts,chips. I kid you not!!!

He being of normal weight Grrrrrrr!

I'm sure he doesn't like me saying " you don't know what hunger is", as I drink my Protein Shake.< /p>

But for 40yrs he has loved me, most the time over 200lbs and has never mentioned not one word about losing weight.

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OK' date=' you both are...............

I have been with my hubby for almost 20 years and he does a lot of stuff that annoys the crap out of me but I know i do a lot that annoys the crap out of him. But the most annoying thing he does now, is he thinks I'm a sleep and I hear the potato chip bag tussling and the crunch of the chips. Now that annoys the absolute crap out of me.

But on the other hand, he has been my biggest supporter (except when he told me my thighs looked bad) but he paid for that comment dearly.

i will keep him, he loved me when I was fat and he still loves me know shrinkles and all. <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/wink.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=';)' />[/quote']

Oh god! You win! Potato chips really? He must have them well hidden!

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Girl you lie! You know your conceited! Jk! Isn't it wonderful to be adored. My hubby of 20 yrs is still like that. As for annoying habits well... Where do I begin.

I'm missing those habits right now though because he got a call from his family in Italy the day before my surgery that his mom was in a coma from a virus and that evening he was on a plane. I've been going it alone and I could use his cheers right about now.

Oh yeah did I mention that he cheers me on with a thick Italian accent.. Oh yes' date=' it doesn't get better than that!![/quote']

I remember you mentioning that he was away! I couldn't do this without my boyfriend. Any word on when he'll be home?

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OK' date=' you both are...............

I have been with my hubby for almost 20 years and he does a lot of stuff that annoys the crap out of me but I know i do a lot that annoys the crap out of him. But the most annoying thing he does now, is he thinks I'm a sleep and I hear the potato chip bag tussling and the crunch of the chips. Now that annoys the absolute crap out of me.

But on the other hand, he has been my biggest supporter (except when he told me my thighs looked bad) but he paid for that comment dearly.

i will keep him, he loved me when I was fat and he still loves me know shrinkles and all. ;)[/quote']

LOL, I hide all the goodies in my house. You'd think I'd be the one needing them hidden, but I buy my boyfriend and daughter the stuff that I don't care for. My boyfriend thinks it's hilarious how I know what him or my daughter are doing even if I'm not in the room and can just hear them. He's jealous of my mommy ears and extra eyes. Lol. I heard him looking for the oreos the other day and he was so shocked when I kept telling him they're not there, nope not there either, warmer, etc. All from the other room and couldn't see him. Haha.

I was 195 when we got together, went up to 240 shortly after due to an extended hospital stay and big life changes and he's still here, so I guess it doesn't bug him that much. I'm currently at 223. So excited for skinny again!

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Ok ladies' date=' I will be married 40 yrs next month and like Jean McMillan writing Bandwagon, I could write a book "The Ways I Stop From Killing My Husband".

Laundry next to basket too, trash next to trash can(biggest rrrrr), I'm hungry, I'm hungry after a huge breakfast,ice cream, Cookies, peanuts,chips. I kid you not!!!

He being of normal weight Grrrrrrr!

I'm sure he doesn't like me saying " you don't know what hunger is", as I drink my Protein shake.

But for 40yrs he has loved me, most the time over 200lbs and has never mentioned not one word about losing weight.[/quote']

I tell mine that the only reason he's still alive is because I'd miss him too much. Lol.

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I remember you mentioning that he was away! I couldn't do this without my boyfriend. Any word on when he'll be home?

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No! Maybe 2 weeks, maybe a month...grrr!

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No! Maybe 2 weeks' date=' maybe a month...grrr![/quote']

=( I'm so sorry! We're all here if you need us! We don't all just have to talk about lapbands! Keep busy! He's sure to notice weight loss not being around you all day! ;)

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The most annoying thing my husband does...well there is leaving a billion cups of half full Water on his night stand,throws clothes on floor next to hamper(I even placed it on his side of the bed!),pretends to be COMPLETELY knocked out when our daughter wakes up in the middle of the night,forgets to take the trash out almost every tue,but I would have to say the most annoying is he brings ME home sweets...uhm hello? I am busting my ass to lose weight! Weirdo.

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The most annoying thing my husband does...well there is leaving a billion cups of half full Water on his night stand' date='throws clothes on floor next to hamper(I even placed it on his side of the bed!),pretends to be COMPLETELY knocked out when our daughter wakes up in the middle of the night,forgets to take the trash out almost every tue,but I would have to say the most annoying is he brings ME home sweets...uhm hello? I am busting my ass to lose weight! Weirdo.[/quote']

Lol, I guess the dirty laundry thing seems to be in all men! Mine "forgets" to take out the trash as well.

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Sorry girls. I scored a good one. He loves laundry, cleans after I cook, does the litter box, and even scrubs the bathroom. It's a trade off. I do the bills!

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Sorry girls. I scored a good one. He loves laundry' date=' cleans after I cook, does the litter box, and even scrubs the bathroom. It's a trade off. I do the bills![/quote']

Are you sure he is a man? Has he always been a man? Jk ;)

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Ha Ha...."shrinkles", I love that one!

Um, when we're asleep, my hubby likes to feel over on my side of the bed to see if I'm there (different bedtimes), but sometimes I'll be on my back and "whoomp!", he stretches his arm out and hits me right in the face! He doesn't mean to do it, or so he says..... :P

And in our house, I do all the cleaning, the cat litters, the dishes, the cooking (he's a professional cook) since I re-started my journey....and HE does the bills. I'd rather do the bills, lol.

And, like someone else posted, he'll bring me home a goody he made at work that I can't eat! Ahhhh

But I think I'll keep him :D

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