We need a place where we can support each other through our "more than most" journey. Just as turtles don't get much out of hearing us talking about fast we're losing, maybe it would give us a nice break from "I'm getting banded because I need to lose 60 lbs".

I think we have our own unique challenges, expectations, baggage, etc. -- and we need our own little niche to support eachother. We all have a very long journey ahead of us, and need to band together.

Thanks for the replies, I really appreciate your advice.

I was 348 and 5'7". I had surgery 2 weeks ago, and I'm down 26 pounds. I lost 23 of those pounds in the first week. How often do other folks weigh themselves? I love the idea of a super sized forum!

I don't fit into your thread of starting at a BMI over 50, but while you know you're trying to get to a BMI that I started at, I'm drooling over all your heights! LOL.

We all want what someone else has.

No matter how much I lose, I still be very short and it will probably be harder for me to get to a normal BMI at a height of 5'0" (I have to be less than 128 lbs to be at the high end of "normal" weight) then it will be for most of you at 5'7" to 5'9".

I am just trying to achieve and maintain the lowest healthiest weight I can.

So many of you have had incredible weight loses.

Good Luck to us all!

I don't fit into your thread of starting at a BMI over 50, but while you know you're trying to get to a BMI that I started at, I'm drooling over all your heights! LOL.

We all want what someone else has.

No matter how much I lose, I still be very short and it will probably be harder for me to get to a normal BMI at a height of 5'0" (I have to be less than 128 lbs to be at the high end of "normal" weight) then it will be for most of you at 5'7" to 5'9".

I am just trying to achieve and maintain the lowest healthiest weight I can.

So many of you have had incredible weight loses.

Good Luck to us all!

I sure can relate to that!! I'm 5' also... one nurse even measured me at 4'11". I didn't accept that! I was 5'2" all my adult life and suddenly I'm 5'! I didn't look to see what the BMI charts say is a "normal" weight for me. I'm shooting for 150 at this point. When I get there, if I decide I want to go lower, that'll be time enough to make that decision. 128 sounds unattainable to me right now!!

Phyl, Well congrats on your weight loss. Almost 6 lbs a month. I'd take that!

i was banded on 11/27/07 and just had my first fill today. My next one is in two weeks. they told me not to expect this first one to do anything. After fills, I am on full liquids again for 2 days and then soft for two days, then back to normal foods that I can tolerate. Just working the process and trying to be the 'leader of my band".

I'm in the Northeast, where are you?

I am obviously new but learning fast and praying I don;t have complications along the way.

P.S. I used to be 5 feet and 1/2 inch. I guess I shrunk the 1/2 off! My husband is 6'4", what a pair!

First Surgeon appt/ Day of Surgery/ Current/Goal

216 212 202 140 (fingers crossed)

I am right there with you Phyl - 5' 1" last I checked. 150 sounds good to me, I can't believe I could ever get to 120-125 to be "normal". I am amazed at people that are over 200lbs and in size 14 or 16. I am still a size 22 after losing 104lbs. I have not idea how much I am going to have to lose to be able to shop in the "normal" clothes!

I am right there with you Phyl - 5' 1" last I checked. 150 sounds good to me, I can't believe I could ever get to 120-125 to be "normal". I am amazed at people that are over 200lbs and in size 14 or 16. I am still a size 22 after losing 104lbs. I have not idea how much I am going to have to lose to be able to shop in the "normal" clothes!

Well, I thought I'd figured out how to do the "multiquote" thing, but I guess not because it didn't work! Trying to respond to both of you.

Anyway, I'm in the SW right now, live in WA state, was born in Buffalo NY, though. We are "snowbirds" living in our RV for the winter near Palm Springs.

I'm transitioning from 3X to 2X. I was wearing a 28 bathing suit last season but bought a new one yesterday... size 22!! It's hard because when I'm looking at clothes, I'm still going to the 3X and above!

Nice to hear from other height challenged people!

PHYL, Palm Springs area is beautiful. Lucky you. Our daughter lives in Vegas, but we can't retire yet. When we do, we'd love to spend 1/2 the year with her.

Good for you, changing sizes feels so good doesn't it? I just ordered a smaller size pant ( 18w), the 20W are getting loose. Just anxious to be in the "regular" petite department. It's been a long time!

Major CONGRATS sweethinkr!!!

That is WONDERFUL....I can't wait until I am able to feel what it's like to lose 100 lbs. Keep up the great work!

I had some issues myself...I had a very HEAVY one this month which was 3 weeks after surgery, My norm is light and short. I think it has to do with the surgery. A question for you though... Were you taking Birth Control...before, during surgery??? I was told not to take any BC during, my OB Gyn suggessted that I started them after surgery. I haven't started them up yet personally. I agree with the other person that said it changes the meds in some way by crushing them up. My docs suggessted the I cut all my pills in half but not the gel caps.

IVE BEEN ON THE PILL SINCE 1987. the pharmacy assured me crushing them wasnt a problem. I took them for the duration. Finally!! my period stopped after three&1/2 weeks. My Dr. thinks its the wt loss. and my age. he said the peri menap test would not give an accurate reading because its only good when you have not had a period for 6 months. something about cell counts. I see my obgyn the 17th. Im just real glad Im off it for the holidays. Im bloted enough form eating holiday crap at work for two days now. ive had one fill and have no restrictions anymore, surgery is just a memory. I get full once in a while but not too bad. ill get back on track when Im done entertaining for the holdays. My cheating is probably worse in my head cuz i have'nt gained any wt, but havnt lost any this week eaither. this is the first time in months that I ate cheese and crackers !! but no bread,rice sweets. just hordevores that keep floating in. ah yea and a piece of See's Candy. tradition ya know? lol. anyone else feeling the tugs of way too much fun food to look at? no one knows at work im banded they literally set things on my desk and walk away. its almost over now TG

Thanks

3 1/2 week period huh?? I have that about once a year - otherwise I don't have one at all. The docs totally believe it's because of my obesity. They've tossed around the idea of PCOS, which I've considered for a long time... Really, I don't mind not having a period, however I did think it would return with some weightloss! I've lost 79 pounds and still no sign...

I feel like I can finally write it. I am at 318 as of today and I think that I can actuall feel comfortable with the idea of being at twoterville. I've seen the thread, but did not post cause I did not feel like I was close enough, but 18.5 lbs to go.

This last fill seems to have really restricted me...I think I am where I'm supposed to be. Seems like only about 2 oz of meat and a little veggie and I am done for the meal. I have dropped a few lbs quickly after this fill as well. I will just wait and see how it goes. I always have a quick little drop after a fill, then about three weeks later I loosen up and need that next scheduled fill.

I am taking two weeks off from working with my trainer. It is the holidays and he said it is a good time to give my body a rest. I still need to keep up the cardio on my own. I can't wait to be able to run and start sprints. He says that will really get my heart rate up and boost my metabolism...can't wait for that to happen:-)

Merry Christmas to you all!

Mary

I started out with a BMI of 51 in the Extremely Obese category. Well I am happy to report that I am now considered merely obese with a BMI of 34, I will be happy to make it to the overweight category and if ever to the "normal weight" category.

Hello Everyone...and Merry Christmas!!

I just dropped by for a little encouragement. I love reading all the posts. Got a big Christmas dinner to face today... I haven't been doing all that well. I got banded on Sept. 6, 2007. I still haven't had a fill because my darn port cut is taking forever to heal. It looks like it finally has though and maybe I will get a fill when I go in on Jan 2nd. Then maybe I will finally be able to lose again. Thanks to all for all the inspiration and I hope you have a GREAT holiday!! bev

I sure can relate to that!! I'm 5' also... one nurse even measured me at 4'11". I didn't accept that! I was 5'2" all my adult life and suddenly I'm 5'! I didn't look to see what the BMI charts say is a "normal" weight for me. I'm shooting for 150 at this point. When I get there, if I decide I want to go lower, that'll be time enough to make that decision. 128 sounds unattainable to me right now!!

For me I am 5'4" and I am also shooting for 150 as an ultimate goal. I will reevaluate it when I get closer but I think 150 sounds small enough for me right now. heck 200 seems pretty far away right now. But I know I will get there if I work hard and dont look at the numbers.

I have to go buy a scale this week. My fill dr requiers a once a week weigh in on your own scale or he will not do a fill.

So I have to go buy one.

I just had my second fill and im ticked off and not sure i should be. they use the flora. when i was being sat up in the chair after the needle was inserted I felt a pop. the girl got a discussed look on her face and said it popped out...the assisstant looked surprised. i said "hey that feels wierd what happend? I got completly ignored after that and she put me half way back down to adjust i guess, she held onto the needle, I was then sat back up and she did the fill. I felt it. not pain but. exactly like when i was pregnat 22 years ago and the baby kicked. I commented that this was totaly differant then the first time. she did not reply. All the way home I thought to myself, does this happen alot. could i get punctured inside? I have only had one fill and it was really great, just no restriction for more than a week. This lady did not ask how the past three weeks had been and if I hadn't asked she wouldnt even of told me what she had put in. Im disscussed and will request she not do my fill again. has this happen to others? wondering????

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BANDED 10/25/07 BMI 52

12/20/07 BMI 47

ONE FILL

CAN NOT FOR THE LIFE OF ME SET THE TICKER

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