LaBelle509

What size bougie will he be using? How much of the stomach does he plan on removing? Instead of worrying about my gallbladder later, is it more practical removing it now?

Since word is out, not much you can do about it. Don't provide any more details! Most people will not be content with knowing about the surgery. They are going to want details!! How much did it cost, how did it go, how much can you eat, what are you eating, and the big on: HOW MUCH DID YOU LOSE??? SAY NOTHING!! that will kill them on the inside, trust me lol! Your boss took away your choice to keep this a secret, but you are in control from this point on. You got the time off that you needed, so forget about her. But from now on her and all the rest can only watch you get skinny but not be privilege to any more information. I am so sorry you went through that, but you have control of your life again!! best of luck dear.

Welcome Michelle! wish you most success on your new journey

had my surgery May 24th! things are going well and I am exercising 6 days a week. I am doing better with my protein and water intake... But I do eat carbs Mashed potatoes with ground turkey and peas is my favorite meal at this point

You are welcome!! people has been so good to me here, i am glad to share what I have learned The name of the supplement is Bifera. Please check with your doctor for his preference of course. That was Dr. Wizeman's choice, might not be his. It took me a little searching to find it, but it really helped me!!!

I was extremely tired as well!! after my blood works my doctor prescribed me an Iron supplement. My blood level was fine but my iron count was low. He also stressed the need to stay on top of my Protein intake. My level was ok but felt it was border line low enough, to contribute to my fatigue. After about a week of taking the supplement I can tell you I felt much much better. Exercising longer and not as exhausted at the end of the day. My B12 level was fine but still felt tired, once my Iron level went the fatigue got better. As for the stall went though it as well. It happens. Your body will adjust to the lost and you will start losing again. And it will happen again, and so forth....Just keep doing the right thing. Hope you feel better and don't forget to drink enough Water, because dehydration will make you feel weak as well....

So sorry you went through all this! May you continue to feel better and soon return home to your family!

I only add to really try and not snack!! Keep your water bottle near by and sip on that. Take time to eat your meals while at work. I always make sure that my lunch is a nice piece of fish, chicken or beef( well cooked), with spinach or green beans that way I stay full longer. That helps me stay away from grazing. And I always carry some Greek yogurt with me, just in case, I feel like a little something extra. Up your protein, drink your water, exercise, lower your carbs, keep your calories in check and see if that helps!! we are here for you!

your story is beautiful, you daughter is absolutely beautiful!! May God continue to bless you and your family.

There are days when you will be to eat more than the day before or less. As long as you stop eating when comfortably full/satisfied. Listen to your body. You will know when you are pushing yourself too far. The swelling is going down so you will be able to consume more. But you will notice when you eat a high protein meal, you feel full quicker and eat less. And the bulkier the protein in the meal, the longer you will stay full.

felt the same but it got better:)

to this day I feel gross watching people eat large amount of food, yet envious and angry that I can't lol!!!!!

How is your protein intake? That will help keeping you full longer. I felt that way too during the first few weeks after surgery but mine was mostly head hunger.

So sorry about all this troubles, stay strong and hope you feel better really soon!

That was one reason I went for this surgery. My daughter is 11yrs and I could never get pregnant after her. My period was very irregular. I used to go three months without one and have it stay two weeks. Than it will show a month later last four days and that's it for another three months or so. Since surgery I am regular. Can't really get pregnant yet since we are to wait at least 12-18 months. But I have a great feeling that I will get pregnant as soon I get the green light from my doctor. CAN'T WAIT!!

Sherry77 is right! The weight gain is a result of all the IV that you received and the swelling from major surgery. During surgery I was told that my abdomen will be pumped up with air, and the best way to get rid of it is to walk. Simply. You might also notice that the pain travels to your shoulder area. I was told that was normal and to be expected. Again the solution was to walk. The incision site on the left did feel numb to touch at first as well as my navel area. But to be honest I did not worry much about that lol! When drinking, remember not to use a straw and to sip slowly taking small sip Be patient and Hope you feel better...

Oatmeal with added protein powder was listed on my food list at week four.

Hi! You don't have to prep for your consult. Just have any questions ready for your surgeon and him or his staff will let you know what you need to do next. You will be fine...best of luck

" All of these comments from other people make me quite nervous. While I appreciate it, they feed into my insecurities. " Now, I am just embarrassed about my weight. I’m embarrassed that I let myself go to such a level. I’m embarrassed to even discuss it. It’s almost as if I feel like I owe the world an apology for being so fat.' I FEEL THAT WAY ALL THE TIME!!!!!! I thought I was insane for feeling so horrible when people made comment about my weight loss so far. I will walk away feeling if you think I look great now that I have so much to lose HOW DID YOU THINK OF BEFORE? and some really go over board with the loud comments and don't realize this is a private matter/fight! I don't really need you announcing to the room that I am losing weight. Worse is when they openly ask me in a room full with people how much have I lost?!!!!! like really?! Thank you for posting this!

I was told the same as TMyers. I was told to keep my protein intake between 60 to 80gr or more but not less. He said it helps with the healing process and fast/steady weight loss...

let your surgeon's office know how you are feeling! dehydration is not a good thing. I could not drink the required 64oz but I was able to get 32oz in plus the protein drinks (16oz) SF pops, 2oz yogurt or jello or pudding. Really hope you feel better...

I wanted my doc to remove mine as well but he said I did not have to. I do worry about that happening to me He did put me on Actigal 300mg, 2X a day, for the next six months. He said this is what he does for his patients and that works thus far. My PCP thought his method of treatment was ok. I take them faithfully. Really hope you will feel better!!!

sounds real good to me!!

mine stayed in till about 4 weeks, than the nurse gave me the option to let my body dropped them or allow her to remove them. Since I didn't want to see them anymore I asked her to do it. She grabbed one end and gently pulled. They slid right off and I did NOT feel a thing.

THAT LOOKS YUMMY!!!! I'm five weeks out, can I eat it?!!!!!!