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Hello, everyone. Today I decided that enough was enough....I have decided to get the lap band. Tomorrow I plan on making an appointment with my doctor to discuss my options. I have to admit, though, I'm really scared.

First off, I'm only 18. Many of you might think that it's too young of an age, but I have been struggling with my weight all my life. This included yoyo diets, exercising, and even some not-so-proud methods such as starvation and diet pills.

I'm scared of what my peers would think, what the risks are with surgery, and what would happen once I make the drastic changes in my diet. I'm worried about not getting enough nutrition and that my body would become unhealthy due to lack of Vitamins and Protein.

I still have so many questions in my head about this but I don't even know what to ask. This is all very scary for me.

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Hi SaZoo, There is a girl on this board that is your age. Her name is Erin. She has had the surgery and would be good for you to talk to since you are the same age. Look for her on the boards and highlight her name and it will give you her profile. Then send her a private message and I am sure she will be glad to talk to you. She is always looking for someone her age to talk to. Good Luck on your impending surgery. Have you been to a seminar yet? That might be a good place to start along with talking to your doctor. Good Luck and keep us posted.

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Good luck to you! I'm sure you'll find lots of support and advice in the threads on this forum. I wish you lots of success on your journey!

TPG

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I think if you were not scared then that would worry me i think everyone is scared at the beginning but just remember girl knowledge is power and there is plenty of ppl here that are willing to help you. Good luck and keep us posted.

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Thank you so much for those who replied. I feel better just reading what you have to say. I haven't gone to a seminar yet. So far, I've looked at the posts that are made on this site and also talked to a friend of mine who got banded six months ago. I am calling my doctor today to schedule an appointment to discuss my options and whether I'm qualified (which I am). I'll be sure to keep you updated.

Thanks!:biggrin:

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