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Is it bad that I want him to be jealous?

Ok, so I really liked this guy for about a month, we were like really good friends since the beginning of this semester, and I thought it was mutual. I'm a very forward person, and I just came up to him and told him that I liked him. WELL. He started acting weird, so I was like ok he doesn't like me back, so that's fine. So I proceeded to just be his friend again and tried to stop liking him. The weirdness goes on for like 2 weeks. He said he wanted to talk to me in person like over coffee about the whole thing, but he cancelled on me twice about 30 minutes after I'd gotten to the coffee shop both times. Then he stops talking to me for a full week straight. He would see me and then turn around and walk the other way. I would try to say hi and he would just pretend like he didn't hear me. I was so heartbroken. I didn't even like him anymore, but it was like he didn't even want to be my friend anymore. After that, he just acted like nothing had ever happened and like we were the best of friends. I was so confused! How can you not talk to me for a FULL WEEK and then try to act like nothing happened? ALSO I thought the drama ENDED in high school! I thought college was drama-free! Apparently not.

WELL. Since I've started this whole thing, I've lost about 34 pounds and people have started noticing! Well I saw him today and he saw me and did a double take! I was wearing clothes that fit my newish body shape and I guess he noticed! I laughed to myself and I'm kinda glad that he is noticing me. Is it bad that I want him to be jealous that he didn't get me while he had the chance?

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lol, it's TOTALLY NOT WRONG!!!

i'm going through a very similar situation... the more weight i loose, the more attention i get.

i hate guys... especially shallow ones who now all of a sudden want to say hello since i've lost 50+lbs...

DONT GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE!!! and congrads on your weightloss!!!:smile:

lol, it's TOTALLY NOT WRONG!!!

i'm going through a very similar situation... the more weight i loose, the more attention i get.

i hate guys... especially shallow ones who now all of a sudden want to say hello since i've lost 50+lbs...

DONT GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE!!! and congrads on your weightloss!!!:smile:

i completely agree!!!!!!!!!!!! and just gets more and more apparent the higher the weight loss goes.. im at 120lbs lost, now and its crazy...:thumbup:

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