I was just wondering, can anal sex cause colon cancer or any other type of cancer? I have heard that doing it alot can cause it?

So are you saying that while having anal sex, the clitoris is being stimulated by his fingers? I am sorry to be so dense.

I just don't get it. Someone said there are nerves in the anus, but I didn't think these nerves were orgasm producing type nerves the way the clitoris is.

I understand perfectly how to achieve an orgasm from oral sex. That of course, makes perfect sense.

I know there are vaginal orgasms which are also called G spot orgasms, but again, that's in the vagina not the anus.

Yes, there is some sort of clitoral stimulation happening.