Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Shrinkin' Violets Part 3 Read HERE!



Recommended Posts

I NEED that trip too hah hah.

I don't know about the V trip being there, but I definitely want to come out Pam sometime when you're going to some fabulous party where you can bring your not-so-fabulous Alabama friend. Seriously. Sometime next year, I wanna do it.. so let me know :tt2: I'm sure you'll get takers on other V's too. A BONUS V trip.

:thumbup: ME ME ME!!!:party:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

HAPPY JUNE 1ST!!

Ready for another month? I am ready for my next -5. C'mon, who is gonna bust ass with me? Any takers? :party: Just 5....we can do this! (more would be great but 5 is doable)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Good morning, Violets..

Tracy.. I'm with you!!! Enough of this farting around with one or two pounds up and down. I need to get serious about losing again. With the pool open now, I can get more exercise. Unfortunately my plans for today got shot down by the weather. It's 45 and pouring out. I was going to jump in the pool after my hospital shift and bike ride tonight after Ethan leaves. Unless the weather improves, that's not going to happen. But I do have the new Wii fitness DVD so will have to do that sometime today.

I'm definitely going to Palm Springs sometime to visit the Doctor. That's on my bucket list.

I'm so glad we were able to have Violet representatives at the party. Just wish I could have been one of them.

Off to get dressed to head to the hospital. I need to find my umbrella... grrrrr.

Everyone have a great day.

Guess we've lost Jenn and Tracyinks again, eh?

Heather.... keep us posted with baby news, k? I'm excited for you this week!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Me again.. Just got off the phone with Kris and she quit her job. She said she just couldn't leave Grady. He was up at 3:30 feeding and afterwards gave her a big smile and that was it. She had been having panic attacks and couldn't breathe worrying about leaving him. Fortunately she is blessed with the choice to work or not. I just told her to please keep things current so she doesn't lose her LPN certificate. Sooooooooo no extra Grady time for Grandma. sigh. I do wish she would have given it a chance, but it's her choice.

Off to my volunteer shift. Still raining here. :party:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Good Morning Girls~

Well, I am up early (although I don't know how...we were up talking/laughing until 11:30). Susanne left for work at 5:50 and she woke me up when she left. The girls are sleeping...Michelle in the closet and Haydee in the Living Room. I am trying to type quietly in the den.

We had such a great weekend...and you all were w/ us in our hearts! We missed each and everyone of you! Susanne really enjoyed the girls as well. She is kinda quiet but jumped right in. I take the girls to the airport at 11am for the flight at noon! But I live 5 houses from the runway, so it wont take long. We have to pick up our pix from CVS and get an In and Out Burger for Juan (ssshhhh It is a surprise for him).

I am sad to see them leave:frown: (hey, I just realized the smilies moved from the right of the post box to the bottom). I need to get boxes of Thank You cards and do some shopping, and then work on edits. My "new" goal is to have all edits done by the end of the school year (2 weeks from today!).

Looking forward to Alabama!! Even though THIS trip is not a full Violet load...it will be great to see the ones who are coming. And for the Violets who are not coming THIS year...don't worry my lovlies...you will make the next one for sure!

Love love love you girls...

xooxxoxo

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Oh yeah...anyone else CAN NOT get on FACECRACK??? I try from my bookmark AND my regular google search and it only says "operation aborted". Been going on for a few days...HELP...they don't call it crack for nuttin'!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

morning

glad you guys had such a great time.

after i was called out on being a fat ass last week, i sulked, cried and spent 3 days in bed... this morning i got up and went for a 3 mile walk. I'm going to cancel my gym membership for the summer, because i don't have the money and i can walk every day.

i don't know what to eat i just cant remember how i did it in the beginning

anyway, i'm going to the grocery store, i'm now staRVing and only have food for the kids, i can't remember what i use to eat, i suck

be good everyone

Terry -Hugs,

Tracyk = motivate me? i need to lose the 5 i gained on the stupid antidepressants.... which i stopped because it is not worth it for me to gain weight! oh, plus the other 200 i was told i was overweight.... yup... you all know how mental i am about it and now see myself right back to where i was

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Jenn-we can do this together. We did it before, remember? We can do it again. Even if it is baby steps, it is still baby steps in the right direction. I remember what you did before...you were a Protein Shake drinking fool! Remember? lol, you drank more than the law should allow! Antidepressants can really put the pounds on so you should be able to lose again. You will fell like a brand new person once the weight starts coming off again. I know we can do it!

Judy-I knew you would do it with me :party: All of us feed off of the energy of the other violets. At least I know I DO!

I am just so tired of feeling sorry for myself that I let this happen to me, ya know? THAT isn't helping anything at all. So, I just decided to get over it.

****Pamela-when Michelle wakes up does that mean she will be 'coming out of the closet?' LMAO!! (I crack myself up)

Edited by TracyK

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Tracy...can you get on FB??? I am soooo mad! I want on...

Michelle will have to tell you her own "coming out of the closet" story...there is one, well, sort of!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Tracy I am with you and Judy and Jenn and anybody else.

Suzanne, I am not going to make my goal of being at the weight I was when I last met the violets! That is okay because they don't care (RIGHT??) We are who we are, and I just have to accept things don't always go as I have planned!!

I am so glad everyone had a great time in CA! I am sure they are thinking right now that they can't believe the time is already going!!! Soon they will be home!!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Good Morning! I am "out of the closet" now! :party: hardy har har...

Haydee & I are getting ready to wing our ways home... we are on the same flight from here to Dallas, then we go our separate ways... on the flight here we talked nonstop the whole 3 hours... well, & then pretty much every hour since, to, come to think of it... no surprise there, right??

Pammie just came in from picking up the prints of our pics... she's sorting them as I type... I have some frame shopping to do when I get home.

Be assured that you ALL were in our hearts all weekend. We spoke a lot about what a special, amazing group we are... how our connections have transcended simply weight loss... and how blessed we are to be in this group. x 100!

I don't wanna go home!!! waaaaah.

Gotta finish packing... "see" you back on East Coast time!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Suzanne, I am not going to make my goal of being at the weight I was when I last met the violets! That is okay because they don't care (RIGHT??) We are who we are, and I just have to accept things don't always go as I have planned!!

Finally somebody gets it!!!! We are here for each other no matter what we weigh. Lapband brought us together and friendship grows from that. Ain't no group like the Violets,that's for SURE. So glad our representatives had a good time in California and those of us going to Alabama will try and be good reps for the Violets as well. And this will be a yearly trip, so if you can't go this year, there's always next and next and next until you come to visit me in the nursing home!!:party:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Oh Judy, I meant to comment that I that I was guessing that Kris wouldn't be able to do it, to go back to work... I was right where she was, too, and reading your posts about it brought those feelings back to me so strongly... I'm happy for her... & somehow I'm sure you'll still be getting in as much gramma time as you can!!

And have I mentioned that I'm getting so excited to meet & cuddle w/Carson? Can't wait!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
Guest
This topic is now closed to further replies.

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LeighaTR

      Four days post surgery. I am sipping as fast as I can and getting NO WHERE near the goal of 60 - 80 grams of protein or the 64 oz of liquids. I just feel FULL. I don't know if it can still be the gas build up (I would think by now that would be gone) but it is a struggle to drink. And so far I have not had the nausea or spasms and don't want to wander into that territory by pushing too hard with liquids. I about passed out today as it was my most "strenuous" day. Went from second story to basement for shower and I was sure I was going to pass out. Looking back on my last few days I have had a total of less than 1000 calories. Am I just not getting enough nourishment in me? Once again a friday where I can't get ahold of the doc until Monday rolls back around so I am hoping maybe someone here has some experience on how to keep energy going. I do have fibromyalgia too and that may be where some added fatigue comes into play. How did you all fair with the goals the week after surgery?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      2 days until I fly out to San Diego to have my Bypass Surg. in Tiajuana Mexico. Not gonna lie, the nerves are starting to surface. I don't fear the surgery itself, or the fact that I'm traveling alone, but its the aftermath that I'm stressing about the most, after this 8 week wait. I'm excited to finally be here, but I am really dreading the post surgical chapter. I know its going to be tough, real tough and I think I'm just in my head to much now that the day i here. Wish me luck, Hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones, and everything goes smoothly. Cant wait to give an exciting update,. If there is anyone else have a June bypass or even a recent one, Id love to have someone to compare war stories with. Also, anyone near San Antonio Tx? See ya soon with the future me. 💜
      · 1 reply
      1. Phil Penn

        Good Luck this procedure is well worth it I am down to 249.6 lb please continue with the process..

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×