I'm really embarrassed to talk about this stuff, but I need to know if anyone is feeling this. As I begin to climax, the Muscles in my port area start contracting, and totally ruins everything!!! It's like kids banging at your door in the heat of the moment!!! Who the heck wants to be reminded about their band during this time???? It's been 5.5 mo, since surgery....How long will this last???? Is this forever?? Now it's taking me forever to reach climax because of this! :tt2:

Seriously, I would talk to the doctor. They may consider moving your port. I mean, this is not something you would want to happen for the rest of your life!

Yah I would mention it to your doctor too - that's weird! How frustrating for you!!

I have not heard of this before. I can't say I know of anyone else who has ever mentioned this. Getting your port moved sounds like a good idea.

Oh, it makes sense to me, its an anticipation thing.I was a bit like this each time I was pregnant, an intense orgasm could bring on quite painful cramps and the anticipation of it hurting really ruined it.

Its probably something that will settle with time, the same as how your port can hurt if you move suddenly or do a lot of exercise early on but a year or two down the track you're never aware of it.

Before rushing to have the port moved, have you tried other positions? Depending on the position I am in, the muscles around my port are more affected, its like getting a cramp in your leg right at that moment of release. Just a suggestion

my port never bothered me at all until recently. It feels like something is pulling when I do certain activities, not necessarily sex though.

Somebody told me it's scar tissue.

On some occasions I have more than one orgasm. I know.... lucky me. Losing all this blubber has sure made a difference!!!! But..... on those occasions, my port area is sore for several days afterwards. If I just go once, I'm fine. It's the "extra activity" that makes it so sore. If I go overboard on ab work at the gym I have the same problem. That stomach muscle it's attached to is hyper sensitive. Suggestions? A heating pad? Ice pack? massage?

Aubrie, personally I'd say a massage, but maybe that would only lead to more discomfort, lol.

I get banded Nov. 18th and this thread is not good news, but I'm glad we are talking about it...In the past, I read someone posting about the port moving as time goes by and weight is lost. Many people posted how their port was in one place after surgery and then as time went by and they lost weight their port moved, sometimes further down, etc. So, maybe, as you keep losing weight the port will move in such a way that will cause less distraction when you're getting busy and on your way to singing a solo? Besf of luck!

when you're getting busy and on your way to singing a solo? Besf of luck!

Omg, I literally LOL'd at that! siging a solo!

I've only been banded a week and haven't even thought of having sex yet, so I am no help, but I hope when I finally do give up the nookie, I don't have port pain! Hope you feel better.

I get this from time to time and it can be painful but it is very very shortlived.

I asked my doctor about it and he said its because I'm still healing. He said it can take up to a year for the port area to completely heal up.

If its really bad pain, that lasts for a prolonged time after stopping then please speak with your doctor.

I'm dealing with it because its not too bad and stops after I take a breather. I'll take the brief pang in exchange for the awesome sex me and DH are having now!!