Has anyone run into their ex partners what was the reaction??? i wonder if they are sorry they cheated on us now??? well moved on he can eat his heart out no funny jiggy jiggy or anything with me, i am off limits to him. share your stories. Will keep you updated on mine, cant wait.

Oh plenty of times! haha He asked me if i was doing drugs actually. lol But than he said no because even your face looks great. HAHA! I have actually found more enjoyment seeing people I went to high school with. My freshman year, some senior called me a whale. I started a new job in June and guess who worked here. You could tell she knew it was me even though I haven't seen her in 4 years. I love to see all the guys that i was just there friend and never more. They are all drooling over me now and i haven't even hit my goal weight.

I can't wait for desert season to start, so i can see all the family friends who weren't always nice to me. I actually had one of them talk a bunch of shit about me in front of everyone and than ask me to give him sexual favors later. haha no I can't wait to see the look on his face now. :]

Good job, girl! Keep up the good work.

Hello,

I havent been banded yet, BUT I know the situation about the your ex cheating. I am getting banded on the 24th of next month. My soon to be ex husband cheated on me. It hurt, and I JUST found out about getting my band date. I CANT WAIT until he sees me after surgery. The look on his face alone will be worth gold when he sees what he gave up simply to have not one, not two but THREE affairs on me.

Yeah I only stayed because of the kids, but now that I am getting this surgery and will e losing this weight, Im sure God will put the right man in my life, that will love me for me, and love my kids possibly as his own.

Let me know when you see him, and what the look on his face will be.. :tt2:

My ex cheated on me with a woman larger and uglier, more butchy than I would ever be. I don't give a damn if I ever see him again skinnier or fatter. What mattered to me were the guys I went to college with, I am now lighter than I was then and had a get together and some didn't recognize me. Now that was priceless.....:tt2:

My ex left me 3 days after being banded...He was sleeping with his ugly ex behind my back...He will regret it now!

You know the first woman my ex cheated on me with was older, uglier and a little heavier than me too. I took care of him like nobody's business! To make matters worse, I found out the day I came home from the hospital with my son about him cheating on me. HE HAD BEEN TEXTING THIS WOMEN WHILE I WAS IN LABOR! He had told me he was texting his work.

What a liar, but he doesnt matter anymore, but the fact that I will look better than the haggish women he has been cheating on me with will make it like the icing on the cake.

:tt2:

well I have been with the same guy now for 7 years and now getting married. He hasn't cheated on me and never would ... he is my biggest fan.

But I do have an ex from 8 years ago that I couldnt care less if I ever saw again.

My ex left me 3 days after being banded...He was sleeping with his ugly ex behind my back...He will regret it now!

Do you think your ex left after you were banded because he was going to reject you before the new "improved" you rejected him?

Do you think your ex left after you were banded because he was going to reject you before the new "improved" you rejected him?

I think there's many signifigant others that have underlying issues with their other 1/2s being banded. The renewed confidence can and is surely intimidating to the less confident.

You go girl!

well, my ex is unfortunately close to my cousin (my cuz is like my older brother), its my cousin's best friend. there's five years of history, or drama as i call it, between us. we're now totally mature when we bump into each other at my cousin's house. last time he saw me was in april before surgery. he always asks my cousin about me, how im doing in my marriage (i find that really funny...what's it to him?!) or how im doing health-wise.so, one day my cousin did tell him i was getting WLS. not that i care, im not looking for the asshole, but like i said unfortunately, we have my cousin in common, so we'll always have that tie. there's a small part of me that wants for him to see me... its more like a revenge kind of thing, like,"you cheated on me, this is what you could have had. too late jerk!" and yes, there's the other side of me; i wish him well, but i hope to never see his face again. does that make sense at all???

yeah. lol. i'd like to run into exes. but i am not banded yet. i can't wait for my 10 year reunion. holy damn. i still have 4 years LOL, but by then, it should be perfect. i don't have it IN me, to be mean...but i kinda wanna treat them the way i was treated LOL. just be like...yeah.. :biggrin: "ive changed my ways, and i'm lovin it..." then walk away hahaha. :cursing:

Do you think your ex left after you were banded because he was going to reject you before the new "improved" you rejected him?

He was cheating on me with his exwife...and now he has moved back in with her....Oh well I am moving on! I snagged myself a new sexier man!

What I've found to be true is , guys who cheat, cheat whether you're hot or not, fat or skinny, pretty or ugly. Before I gained all my weight I was in 2 different relationships with guys who cheated. I was 25 and weighed 115 and was sexy as hell, but it didn't keep them from cheating. I weigh 267 now and my husband is the best!!! He tells me how sexy and beautiful I am and how much he's falling in love with me all over again. He's just a God send. He wants me to be happy with who I am and since I'm not at this weight, he supports me with getting the lapband. I still would love to run into these ex's just to look at them, speak and keep moving. Unfortunately, I have a child by one of them but he's not active in my daughters life so we only see him every once in a blue moon. I have walked by many people I went to school with and wanted to speak but couldn't. I was in the grocery store one time and saw a guy I use to be really close friends with, we were walking towards one another when I noticed him and I whispered to my daughter, I know him, just keep looking ahead and keep walking. He looked at me kinda puzzled like "hmmm I know her from somewhere". I didn't give him time to figure out who I was though cuz I was sooooooooo embarrassed of my weight. Next year this time, I will have a different story. Good luck everyone.