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Encouragement comes when you least expect it

Today my daughter was going through her clothes to see what all she needed before school starts. She came into my room with a few things, saying 'these are too big for me' (she recently went down a size cause she got taller without gaining any pounds). I expected her to ask where I wanted her to put them so I could take them to goodwill, but instead she said 'where do you want me to put these to save them for you?' My heart literally skipped a beat, first at the thought that in a year I could be wearing those size 12 jeans, next at the realization that she could see me achieving that goal and actually believes I will make it! I was hiding tears cause I knew she would think I was a sap. Now I'm going to hang those lovely jeans up on my wall where I can see them every day. Bless her heart, she gave me strength to stick with this without even knowing it.

edit to add: I'd love to hear your stories of unexpected encouragement, little boosts of confidence that come out of the blue

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She's an angel for sure. What was so awesome about it is that she just said it so matter-of-factly, there was no 'if you lose enough' in her voice, it was all 'when you lose enough'. I tell you, I'm gonna wear those jeans!

You have such a sweetie, Lucky you! It's always nice to get that unsolicited support. I have a five year old son at home who is my pride and joy but boy is he is my super critic. I guess it's just his age...

Isn't it wonderful to have such an amazing cheerleader. She is going to be such a help on your weight loss journey! Good luck and hug her for me too!

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