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Does your DH or SO know how much you weigh?



Does your S.O. know how much you weigh?  

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  1. 1. Does your S.O. know how much you weigh?

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i never told my dh he only thought what i was but never really asked but when we got home from my surgery i showed him how much i weighed on the scale i wanted to show him since he is going to iraq for the next year and when he comes back he can see how much progress i really did this year while he was gone. i didnt think he would understand if i didnt show him. his reaction was wow i never thought you were that big. but he is very supportive.

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I know DH's weight and he knows mine. We are each others biggest shoulder to lean on. I can't remember who said it earlier, but DH is doing all my measurements and photos and I did his. No secrets, it's obvious I'm fat.

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My DH knows exactly how much I weigh but he won't tell me how much he weighs. Kind of ironic since he's only about 20 lbs overweight (spare tire).

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Mine knows my weight. I have been blessed with a guy who, after 25 years, loves every inch of me, no matter what size I am. He was so cute the day of surgery. We were leaving the house and he leaned over and kissed me on the top of my head. He said "change whatever you want -just don't change your smell!" Wierd, I know - but I get it!

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My DH didnt know my weight until recently. But I finally decided that I wanted him to see the results on the scale of what I lose so I showed him and he was like wow I thought you might weigh *such and such* which is about 50lbs less so that made me feel good. Anyway hes really supportive and its funny cuz now hes gaining a little (hes not a big guy at all) and I told him that he was gonna have to stop eating my leftovers...

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He thinks I weigh less than him (he weighs 160 and I weigh 180) LOL. I tell him that I am heavier than him but he absolutly will not believe it. Kinda sweet, really.

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I do not tell anyone what I weigh. Especially not my SO. She is ex-military and of course fit. She weighs herself everyday and complains about being 160 lbs! She also drops weight really quickly. I don't, hence the lap band surgery. Once I get below 160 I will probably tell her, but not before!

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I know this sounds silly but what does DH stand for? I know SO is significant other.....and m assuming the other is something husband, but i cant figure it out.........lol

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