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Surgery is tomorrow and I think my anxiety has gone through the roof

Hey everyone,

So I have finally decided that I needed to reach out for some extra support on this journey. I thought I would be able to “man” up and handle this surgery on my own but let me tell you, as reality finally steps in that tomorrow is my surgery, I’m beginning to feel super anxious about the whole thing.

It really hasn’t hit me until today and that’s why I’ve turned here. I think it’s hard to talk to anyone else who doesn’t understand obesity and the struggle of weight loss, they tend to just nod their head and agree or just simply seem like they don’t understand, there’s no connection in the conversation, feels like you’re almost like talking to a wall. So I guess maybe it’ll be easier to talk to someone going through the same experience through all this?

Anywho, so here I am. Trying to overcome this surgery anxiety.

Thanks for any tips and tricks. I’ve read so many posts and weight loss stories already which has been helping but ya know, anxiety is just always there no matter what. I guess I’m just here to talk with you all about your experiences and journeys on a first hand basis.

Thank you again!

-Jon

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    @Jon_gets_skinny Welcome! I don't know if it's comforting to you, but this is so totes normal. Yay on normal, right? The night before my surgery I could barely sleep a wink! One suggestion I wo

  • And the day and night before mine I was certain the surgeon was going to back out on me!!! See I had struggled for over 3 years, been through emotional times and into moderate depression. Was about re

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    FuffyChix, this post is so good I actually printed it out to refer back to later. Such great advice, as always, thanks!

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14 hours ago, bubbz333 said:

@Jon_gets_skinny How are you doing? How did everything go with your surgery?

My surgery is just under 3 weeks away and this is my second one (being revised to bypass from sleeve) and I am so nervous.

dont be nervous you got this this is the way to the rest of your heathy life keep us posted and best of success to you cheers

14 hours ago, bubbz333 said:

@Jon_gets_skinny How are you doing? How did everything go with your surgery?

My surgery is just under 3 weeks away and this is my second one (being revised to bypass from sleeve) and I am so nervous.

dont be nervous you got this this is the way to the rest of your heathy life keep us posted and best of success to you cheers

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