So now that I'm officially back on the market, I am meeting new people and going on dates etc.... that's all great.

Now my ex and I have split I would like to think that I will meet someone that I wanna get up close and personal with.

He had a vasectomy so the baby thing wasn't something we had to worry about...

My question is, after RNY, is the absorption thing a problem when it comes to the contraceptive pill?

I have a 3 and 5 year old and I really don't want any lil surprises!

Implants and the jag don't work for me. The coil sorta freaks me out so I think the pill is my preferred option, if it actually is an option.

3 minutes ago, MsTipps said:

Well the advice was to go for the mirena coil today. Got it put in this morning. Jeez I have never experienced such excruciating pain. Give me childbirth any day. I got all cold, sweaty and shaky then vomited after it. I'm still bleeding quite heavily. Really hope it settles soon because I am freaking out right now x

oh man, that sucks. I have heard that it is as bad as childbirth due to the dilation. I hope you feel better soon.