I had my surgery 4 years ago and I have been bullied by someone after 8 months after I had my surgery.

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Why? Jealous of your success probably!! Bullies generally are weak with low self confidence which is why they feel the need to put others down to make themselves feel better. [emoji35]

I was on a trip with one of my tour groups and the bully said you Will listen to me and you Will not eat this, this and this. I did not listen to the bully. Then the bully had the nerve to say that I wasted the surgeon's time and waste money for the surgery and gained my weight back that's not true.

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HON!! NO ONE and I do mean noone has the right to bully you!! Stand up for your rights. Just prove her wrong. You can do this!! Has she had weight loss surgery? If not she has no clue!! People can be so ignorant at times.

This person she is just a toothpick and she wants everybody to be perfect like her.

You are-you are here because the world had need of you. You make the world more complete just by your very presence. She has no,right to trample your emotions. Yield no power to her. She is a nasty vengeful little toothpick, snap her in half in your mind. Feeling a,little better? Good--- now be your best YOU.

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Thank you for your wonderful and kind words. I feel better.

23 hours ago, Yvonne22474 said:

This person she is just a toothpick and she wants everybody to be perfect like her.

Well she might be a toothpick but she lacks kindness in her heart. There for she be UGLY inside!! She is NOT perfect that is why she has to be so mean. Makes her feel better about herself!! I'm sorry I just HATE BULLY'S!!!

9 hours ago, Yvonne22474 said:

Thank you for your wonderful and kind words. I feel better.

Im a bring it on B*tches type a girl (well im from NYC)

1) Give it no power ignore her and if not rise up and tell her off.

2) She must see you as weak. I see you as a decent human being not everyone has the power to fight back you are beautiful, you are loved and you are important.

3) You cant change her you can only change yourself so dont discuss yourself with her she doesnt need to know that you had surgery if shes in your close circle of friends tell your REAL friends that this takes alot of mental work to be on this journey you will not except her negativity in you vicinity.

4) You control your world. Take it on Good luck you got this you are strong, you are beautiful, you are loved.

Looking forward to Life

We need some NYC spunk and sensibilities here Marissa37, you are going to be an asset to,B.P.. Thanks for becoming our friend.

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