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My first official R&R...Bandsters who dont know a damn thing about banding

I am new here so this topic may have come up before. But one of the frustrating things for me on any band forum (or in real life) is lap band recipients who seemingly know nothing about this piece of silicone that they had implanted in their bodies. I am not talking about the newbies who are trying to educate themselves. I am talking about ignorant individuals who know nothing months out of surgery. The band slip rate has gone up and so has erosion rates....(not to mention revision surgeries)....do you think maybe its because of some people refusing to learn how to live with their bands? There are legitimate reasons some have band complications that are beyond their control...but I wonder how many end up with problems because they are simply tuned out and in denial that they are responsible for their success. What started this rant is an individual on another forum who is doing something dangerous daily and when we all post that she should stop she says her doctor knows what she is doing and we are all liars, because we must do it too. Thats as specific as I am going to be...I have decided to pass all those threads by from now on....if they want to screw up their bands thats their choice.

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Do we get a handbook when we get inducted to the oldies? Or a pin or something? Secret handshake?

But I'd be fine with just being able to pick on the newbies.

No hand book. You just magically "Know it all"

Wait, am I an oldie or a newbie??? At what point do we cross over??

Do we get a handbook when we get inducted to the oldies? Or a pin or something? Secret handshake?

But I'd be fine with just being able to pick on the newbies.

Is this a secret society or a sorority? Are we going to be hazed?

You I am an oldie, an old timer, I know bloody EVERYTHING, I am always right, there isn't anything in the world you can do about it and it is all freak'en about ME!

awwwww ... FINE!

Tequila is allll yours. I've had one too many nights cursing Jose. I'll stick with Jack for the time being.

no no no no NO ... not clear!

My picture is no longer there because it made others feel "Less than Successful"

touche!!!

Awww......so sorry....you can have my spot if you want. My picture is right beside B****. LMAO.:D

beautiful ... :)

It's cool. The popped me in next to the one that starts with "C"

yup ... Chickie ... ;)

cool!!! so i can have that after my fill tomorrow, with a side of steak of course!

Only if you eat 1/4 cup or less of the steak!
It's cool. The popped me in next to the one that starts with "C"

LOL...well my DH has SOB covered.

Wait, am I an oldie or a newbie??? At what point do we cross over??

T girl - you are OLD ... :D

Only if you eat 1/4 cup or less of the steak!

fthat! 24oz porterhouse ...

Sorry LJM, I'm totally in the wrong. Forgot it wasn't clear. Ok...I'll be buddies with the Captain.

Only if you eat 1/4 cup or less of the steak!

ROTHLMAO!! That was brilliant!

Wait, am I an oldie or a newbie??? At what point do we cross over??

You know when you get there. Suddenly you are always wrong, you don't know what it's like, and you become self righteous, condescending and obnoxious! It quite fun, really!

Sorry LJM, I'm totally in the wrong. Forgot it wasn't clear. Ok...I'll be buddies with the Captain.

damn Farmer. Another annoying newbie question. Get with the program! :D

T girl - you are OLD ... :)

That makes me just a little bit sad. Or not.:D

wow - 3 letters for the price of one! :D you married well!!

And they say the first time marry for love. What do they know? :heh:

You know when you get there. Suddenly you are always wrong, you don't know what it's like, and you become self righteous, condescending and obnoxious! It quite fun, really!
Don't forget, you tend to get random people bitching at you! Or you get people that make up brand new SNs to follow you around and harass you!

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