Rather than long winded responses, I feel that long winded videos explain stuff better.

59 minutes ago, Sosewsue61 said:

Hubba hubba.....wolf whistle....

Hahahahahaah! Thank you, I was on the fence about posting this picture in an effort to not be looked at as vain or douchey, but I think the motivational factor Im trying to promote, outweighs that. And I must admit, it feels kinda good to be sexually harassed once again. :-) It's been a while...

1 hour ago, Berry78 said:

Oh, man... I almost choked on my coffee!!

Lookin' great!!

Sure it was the coffee? LOL

11 hours ago, cecimendez said:

WOW. You look great. I'm still working on getting that exercise in.

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You have to..Its that simple. You need to learn to love being healthy and living a healthy lifestyle. It doesnt have to be insanely healthy to the point of an obsession, but just a lot healthier than we once were.

You look GREAT...

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Sorry if this is a bit much to post, but Im a father of 2 that was a 300lb hot mess just 6 months ago, and Im proud of this and I want to share it! Im either bout to get roasted or my inbox bout to blow up from all you ladies!!! LOL...

First and foremost, I want to thank you for all your videos. Not only are they inspirational but instructional and satisfying. I am a 41 yr old female with 212 lbs on me and a BMI of 38, and am only 5’1”......I wasn’t always a big girl, but after having 4 kids and now 2 grandchildren, I just don’t have the energy anymore. I eat well, just too much of it. Never been a picky eater. The gym just leaves me exhausted and emotionally drained. My point is; I am scheduled for surgery this coming Wednesday, Nov 1st. I was in tears last night because my husband doesn’t seem to be very supportive of my decision (he weights 138 lbs soaking wet). I was ready to call my Dr. first thing Monday morning to cancel, but After watching your videos most of the day today, I felt such relief that I no longer want to cancel. THANK YOU!!!!!!! And you look HOT (no disrespect to your wife) so enjoy it....

Rather than long winded responses, I feel that long winded videos explain stuff better.
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Wow!!! I am in tears after watching your first video. Although my situation is a bit different, the bottom line that I need help the same way you did makes me feel like hey somebody gets it! Your after picture is just amazing!!! You look so healthy and I know your wife and children are loving the new you. I want that too!! I'm so fat I cannot catch my 29 month old grandson..smh. Anyway could you share your YouTube channel with me please?


Thanks so much for
Sharing your journey!!


Best wishes!

Dotty Cole

Do it for yourself and your grandchildren. He will come around.

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10 hours ago, dcole007 said:

Wow!!! I am in tears after watching your first video. Although my situation is a bit different, the bottom line that I need help the same way you did makes me feel like hey somebody gets it! Your after picture is just amazing!!! You look so healthy and I know your wife and children are loving the new you. I want that too!! I'm so fat I cannot catch my 29 month old grandson..smh. Anyway could you share your YouTube channel with me please?


Thanks so much for
Sharing your journey!!


Best wishes!

Dotty Cole

My Chanel is Jersey Jules, same as my screen name and thank you for the kind words! Im glad i can motivate some people to literally save their lives!

6 hours ago, StartingFresh said:

My husband wasn't supportive either. My date was 10/26 and that date changed everything. He spent the 45 min of my surgery crying and the past 2 days making up for all the support he didn't give throughout the preop process.
It's been nice having the man I married back!
I think they're afraid of all the other things we're not afraid of or even thinking of.. Like leaving them etc.

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Tell him the hormone change you are about to experience is gonna make you the horniest version of yourself he has ever seen...Hes about to get worn the hell out, trust me!!! Give it 3 to 4 weeks....He will be thanking you.. My wife has to literally spray me with a hose to keep me off of her. :-)

My husband wasn't supportive either. My date was 10/26 and that date changed everything. He spent the 45 min of my surgery crying and the past 2 days making up for all the support he didn't give throughout the preop process.
It's been nice having the man I married back!
I think they're afraid of all the other things we're not afraid of or even thinking of.. Like leaving them etc.

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You’re probably right. Today he said “3 more days” maybe he is starting to realize how I feel. Thanks for your advice.

Seriously if these husbands knew how much sex they are about to have, they would be waaaaaaaay more supportive.. Every woman that I know who had the surgery has been a maniac about sex afterwards..

Really starting to see my abs..

As the weight is coming off my sex drive is coming back as well. My wife had her surgery 2 months before me and she has been super horny.

On 11/15/2017 at 10:13 PM, Walter.Sobchak said:

As the weight is coming off my sex drive is coming back as well. My wife had her surgery 2 months before me and she has been super horny.

It seems to do more with the females sex drive following the surgery, some sort of hormone thing going on...My sex drive is back to my mid 20's I would say.