Skip to content
View in the app

A better way to browse. Learn more.
BariatricPal

A full-screen app on your home screen with push notifications, badges and more.

To install this app on iOS and iPadOS
  1. Tap the Share icon in Safari
  2. Scroll the menu and tap Add to Home Screen.
  3. Tap Add in the top-right corner.
To install this app on Android
  1. Tap the 3-dot menu (⋮) in the top-right corner of the browser.
  2. Tap Add to Home screen or Install app.
  3. Confirm by tapping Install.

Join BariatricPal free

  • Ask your own questions
  • Reply and follow topics
  • Message other members
  • No cost, no spam
Create free account

Scared of being denied....

Hello everyone!! I just recently started my journey for weight loss surgery and can say I'm super excited!! However I have this fear of being denied my surgeon gave me a surgery date of December 16 and I have been going to a ton of appointments just nervous because I have a surgery date without an approval. Anyone else experience this? It's very emotional for me. I have Empire BCBS metropolitan plan and my bmi is 44 they told me I have great insurance and they don't feel there's any concern for denial but after reading a lot of post I'm nervous

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

  • Quote
    • Replies 19
    • Views 1.9k
    • Created
    • Last Reply

    Featured Replies

    I'm worrying too about being denied for some obscure reason however all the testing is what's really bothering me in these beginning stages.

    I'm 61, my BMI is 36.9, I have diabetes, sleep apnea, high BP and cholesterol and a few other things that qualify me. My worry is really irrational I know. I keep pulling back my hopefulness and excitement for fear that one of the tests will disqualify me.

    Super irrational since 14 months ago I had major surgery for a shattered humorous which I came through with flying colors.

    Just 2 months ago I was put under for dental work and everything was fine.

    I just wonder if all my anxiety is at a deeper psychological level... Like I somehow don't deserve to be thin, healthy and happy. Thoughts?

    CW 227 5'5" 61yrs

  • Quote
    • Author

    I can completely relate I just always dreamed about it but the thought of it becoming a reality feels surreal... I think we all deserve it I'm excited for you please keep us all updated on your progress

    Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

  • Quote

    You need to get info from your insurance company. Coverage varies greatly. I read documentation from my carrier and made calls. When calling, be patient and be prepared to get transferred several times!

    Sent from my SM-N920V using the BariatricPal App

  • Quote
    • Author

    I did call them and spoke with my surgeons office and they confirmed it's not required starting to feel excited!! Can't believe it's all happening almost finished with all my clearance just have my cardiac clearance left :))

    Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

  • Quote

    • Archived

    This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.

    Go to topic listing

    Account

    Navigation

    Search

    Search

    Configure browser push notifications
    Chrome (Android)
    1. Tap the lock icon next to the address bar.
    2. Tap Permissions → Notifications.
    3. Adjust your preference.
    Chrome (Desktop)
    1. Click the padlock icon in the address bar.
    2. Select Site settings.
    3. Find Notifications and adjust your preference.