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I think she can sense that mommy is in a little pain and not to mention I've been away in the hospital for two days. Did anyone else have small kids when you had the surgery? How did you fair? I also have a 10 and 15 year old that have been a great help while my husband is at work. It's breaks my heart when she's grabbing on me to pick her up

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Ya I have help so it's ok. But it is sad. We have an. Upstairs and the baby will want me to carry him down but I can't.

Or take him out the car seat today and I couldn't.

He sits on me n my chair and I hold him this way.

It's hard but he will not be damaged from it is what I keep telling myself

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I have a 3,2,&1 year old. I'm 4 days post op today, and it is heart wrenching that my kids want me to get up and play, but we explained to them before I came home that Mommy was in the hospital, so I can't play right now. They seem to understand, because now they just ask to lay down in bed beside me. It is so sweet.

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breaks my heart

@@ld33

tell he/she to KNOCK IT OFF!! :lol:

you've got your own life to lead!! LOL

glad your other kids are around to help you

hubby too!!

they all love you very much

you all deserve each other!

hopefully you'll feel better sooner than later!

do NOT rush picking baby up

doc probably gave you a weight limit (lifting)

i have a similar prob regarding picking up my daughter

but she is 40 years old!! :lol:

take care

speedy recovery

kathy

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I am getting surgery in 3 weeks and have a 2 year old that still wants me to pick her up all the time. Im worried about her more than any part of the surgery. Shes small, only 22lbs but I think the limit is 15

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I am getting surgery in 3 weeks and have a 2 year old that still wants me to pick her up all the time. Im worried about her more than any part of the surgery. Shes small, only 22lbs but I think the limit is 15

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I'm seven days post-op now and I will get comfortable, put a pillow over my stomach and have my hubby or one of our other daughters place her in my lap.

She did try and dive on me very early on and I had to stop her in her tracks, I felt so bad!

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I have 13 mo old twins who love cuddling and laying on me. I was sleeved Mar 29 and whenever they wanted a cuddle my wife would pick up one or both and place them on my lap.. In bed, kept a pillow against my tummy for protection against kicks

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
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