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Hi my name is Danny. I am 36 years old and I am from Southeast Georgia. I had my wls on July 3, 2012. My highest weight was 527 lbs. My current weight is 235 lbs. I am so happy but so unhappy at the same time. I am a Christian therfore I don't do the bar scene. So I have found it very difficult to meet singles and date. I am very active in my local church but there are no singles there my age. I could use some advice and would love to meet some singles on this site if there are any? Feel free to inbox me and thank you for taking the time to read my post. By the way on a positive not I recently published my first book title "Half the man I used to be with twice the Heart." I thank you for reading my post and look forward to hearing back from all of you!

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Your post does not indicate whether you are looking for single men, women or both?

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I'd recommend using an online dating site that is known locally as being reputable. For whatever reason, some sites attract better candidates than others. I've met some great people through online dating. I recommend being very upfront on your profile. I had a friend who was very blunt on her profile about her likes and dislikes and personality and history, and she found the best guy who is a great fit for her. She attributed it to not trying to attract everybody on the site, but just being very honest to weed out the ones who wouldn't be good dating candidates for her.

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I am a Christian difficult to meet singles and date. very active in local church -no singles there my age.

@@danny7995

292 lb weight loss

amazing!!!

keep up the good job :rolleyes:

i know you will

big kudos

hope this link helps

http://www.bariatricpal.com/forum/436-religious-sleevers/

kathy

congrats

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You should be proud of yourself and I am sure one day the perfect person will appear. Good luck Danny.

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Hi my name is Danny. I am 36 years old and I am from Southeast Georgia. I had my wls on July 3, 2012. My highest weight was 527 lbs. My current weight is 235 lbs. I am so happy but so unhappy at the same time. I am a Christian therfore I don't do the bar scene. So I have found it very difficult to meet singles and date. I am very active in my local church but there are no singles there my age. I could use some advice and would love to meet some singles on this site if there are any? Feel free to inbox me and thank you for taking the time to read my post. By the way on a positive not I recently published my first book title "Half the man I used to be with twice the Heart." I thank you for reading my post and look forward to hearing back from all of you!

Have you tried Christian Mingle?

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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