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Hi my name is Danny. I am 36 years old and I am from Southeast Georgia. I had my wls on July 3, 2012. My highest weight was 527 lbs. My current weight is 235 lbs. I am so happy but so unhappy at the same time. I am a Christian therfore I don't do the bar scene. So I have found it very difficult to meet singles and date. I am very active in my local church but there are no singles there my age. I could use some advice and would love to meet some singles on this site if there are any? Feel free to inbox me and thank you for taking the time to read my post. By the way on a positive not I recently published my first book title "Half the man I used to be with twice the Heart." I thank you for reading my post and look forward to hearing back from all of you!

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Your post does not indicate whether you are looking for single men, women or both?

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I'd recommend using an online dating site that is known locally as being reputable. For whatever reason, some sites attract better candidates than others. I've met some great people through online dating. I recommend being very upfront on your profile. I had a friend who was very blunt on her profile about her likes and dislikes and personality and history, and she found the best guy who is a great fit for her. She attributed it to not trying to attract everybody on the site, but just being very honest to weed out the ones who wouldn't be good dating candidates for her.

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I am a Christian difficult to meet singles and date. very active in local church -no singles there my age.

@@danny7995

292 lb weight loss

amazing!!!

keep up the good job :rolleyes:

i know you will

big kudos

hope this link helps

http://www.bariatricpal.com/forum/436-religious-sleevers/

kathy

congrats

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You should be proud of yourself and I am sure one day the perfect person will appear. Good luck Danny.

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Hi my name is Danny. I am 36 years old and I am from Southeast Georgia. I had my wls on July 3, 2012. My highest weight was 527 lbs. My current weight is 235 lbs. I am so happy but so unhappy at the same time. I am a Christian therfore I don't do the bar scene. So I have found it very difficult to meet singles and date. I am very active in my local church but there are no singles there my age. I could use some advice and would love to meet some singles on this site if there are any? Feel free to inbox me and thank you for taking the time to read my post. By the way on a positive not I recently published my first book title "Half the man I used to be with twice the Heart." I thank you for reading my post and look forward to hearing back from all of you!

Have you tried Christian Mingle?

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