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@@jenn1 I'm not worried what people think. I look healthy. I feel healthy. My doctors are happy. I just had total knee replacement surgery. I am so happy I didn't have to go through that heavier. PT and doctors tell me I'm doing excellent for three weeks out.

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@@SWEETTEA

You are doing fantastic. You are healthy and happy. Can't ask for more than that.. ;)

By the way......Great clavicle bones!

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@@jenn1

Actually, funny story to your question.

My husband had an RNY 9 years ago, and his surgeon was Dr Oakley (I think I told you that). Anyway, he got pretty thin, but still within healthy BMI range. When he complained to Oakley at his year appointment about people telling him he was too thin, Dr Oakley said this:

"There are so many overweight and obese people these days, nobody even knows what a healthy weight looks like anymore".

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@@Babbs

I was one of Dr. Oakley's last patients before he retired. I can see him saying that to your husband. Love it~!!!

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I'm actually going to my PCP today. I do agree that most people don't realize anymore what someone at a healthy weight actually looks like. My weight was at 130 about 11 years ago and many people that knew me then don't have the same "you're too skinny" comments. I think the others just got use to me looking a certain (obese) way.

I do feel tons better at this weight with much more vitality and stamina. Part of the problem is that I only told two people about my WLS: my sister and mother. The bad part of that being all those stupid comments I overhear about the "real" reason for my massive weight loss (cancer, eating disorder, drug addiction). Why can't they just accept that some people actually try really hard to get healthy?

Nevertheless, I don't care anymore. There are more important things to worry about other than what neighbors and relatives think. What is most important is getting healthy, which is why I started this weight loss journey in the first place.

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@@jenn1

I know! I thought that was so cool that you were his last surgery before he retired! He also took my gall bladder out 6 years ago :)

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I love this....great to hear.

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@@SWEETTEA

Congratulations you your success! I am green with envy and cannot wait until I reach my goal!

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@@Djmohr I'm sure you'll get there. It feels good.

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This is a great topic, fun for those contemplating surgery and thought provoking to those of us who are wondering where to go next. I have been stuck in a two month long stall and was wondering "well is this it"? And then boom, 6 pounds disappeared. Now I'm wondering, "do I want to keep pushing for lower weight, more muscle, both." The cool thing is I actually believe I really can control this. It is a decision, not a dream.

Oh, I have not decided yet. I know I need to get rid of the excess skin to get a six pack, body fat is under 20%, I am really vigorous. Many things to ponder...but these are really fun/empowering things to ponder.

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Anyone who can go through this is very strong. This is not an easy decision. Everyone should be proud of themselves. Those first few months are rough. I still have problems occasionally - nausea and stomach aches. I still think, know, I made the right decision. My health and self esteem are so much better. I just had total knee replacement surgery. If it weren't for the weight loss, the recovery would be so much harder. Big pat on the back for everyone.

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Way to go!!! Just wondering about what you said they found...is this why you weren't losing weight...the pleori thing....where you were stuck? What is it?

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Wonderful, congrats!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
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