Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Share with us: What has improved for you?



Recommended Posts

It cracks me up when people don't recognize me and the look on their face when I tell them who I am, or if they are trying to be nice and don't say they don't know and I can tell and I play with them till they figure it out and the light bulb goes off above their head, it is so funny. I never in a million years thought I would be able to lose enough weight my ex mother in law had no clue who I was, or a guy I worked with for 16 years that had quit and hadnt seen me since surgery was asking people who I was,lol , cracked me up! I love my band!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Forever I have sent my jeans to be dry cleaned so they wouldn't shrink.

Now I'm washing and drying them with heat so that they WILL shrink and I can get another couple of weeks wear out of them! That's a first!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Ditto TerriDoodle - that is one of the things that has changed. Laundry. I try to shrink everything now!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

** I am beginning to CARE about my appearance! I've gotten a new haircut and I am more aware of the clothes I pick out to wear. AND I actually stood in front of a full length mirror in the BUFF this morning and didn't throw up!!!! (Nothing I want to parade at the beach or in a pageant of course)

** I don't get so exhausted quickly.

** I don't need nearly as much sleep.< /p>

** I fit in the airplane seat without feeling both thighs rubbing on the sides of the seat!

** My fat neck is going away (being replaced by lines and s potential turkey waddle, but hey, that's what PS is for...)

** My dowager's hump is starting to go down (THANK GOD)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Also a biggie, and it was a surprise to me...going to the doctor, getting on the scale, and NOT HEARING THE CLANK OF THE WEIGHT BEING PUSHED TO THE 200 MARK!!!!!!!!!!!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Let me clarify that...I know that technically a dowager's hump is a malformation of the vertebrae due to osteoporosis. However, I am referring to that HUMP of fat that sits at the back of your neck about 4 inches below the base of the skull....that prevents me from wearing anything that doesn't have a collar because it looks so GROSS.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

We went camping this weekend and I actually could sit on the toilet in the trailer and NOT have my a$$ touch the walls!!! WOOOO FREAKIN HOOOOOO!!! It was great!!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Let's see...

I have the best social life I could ever ask for and I'm not tired... I want MORE!

I will have to agree on the sex issue- I am no longer allowing Men to take advantage of me... I am in CONTROL!!!

I am sexy and I know it!

I feel desireable!

I cross my legs and push my boobs out and no longer think about my belly roll as much

I RODE ROLLER COASTERS for the first time in like 10 years and I didn't worry (too much.. it took riding about 3 of them to realize I no longer had to worry)

My friends think I'm hot and they are seriously like models..

I have sooo much confidence I seriously have no idea what to do with it..

I can do PUSH UPS! what>!

I have a trainer and I am addicted to exercise!

Living never felt so good...

anddddd It's only gonna get better with the last 65 pounds! whew I'm gonna one HOT mama!

I would have NEVER felt like this prior to surgery... I just can't keep the guys off me- not that thats a problem :D

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Feelin comfortable in the "regular" bathroom stall vs. the handicap

Tying my shoes with out hyperventilating from lack of oxygen!

Down to two chins:)

Blood pressure stabilized

Free from Diet coke addiction (LOL)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Also a biggie, and it was a surprise to me...going to the doctor, getting on the scale, and NOT HEARING THE CLANK OF THE WEIGHT BEING PUSHED TO THE 200 MARK!!!!!!!!!!!!

Being able to just use that scale...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My boobs are finally bigger than my stomach!! :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

All of yous on here, my Band Buddies!!

I have lost 50 pounds in 3 months!!

People I know walk right by me, dont recognize me!

After 2 months I went off my Bi-pap breathing machine, hubby says i do NOT snore at all!!

I can FINALLY BREATHE!!!!

Can cross my legs

am off cholesterol pills

off high blood pressure pills

feel good

cannot contain all the energy I have all the time, cant sleep want to get up and go!!

Buying a small size!!! some medium!!

on and on and on PTL!!!!:clap2:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I LOVE this thread !

-I don't wake up exahasted now, I wake up energized !

-I can be weighed at the doctors office, I was over 350, I had to tell them not to bother I was above their scale,that was embarrassing.

-sex just feels more comfortable

-Not to sure if I can fit on a ride yet, to scared to try

I have energy all day ! I used to drag all day long.

-I can fit in a booth more comfortably now

-I have clothes that are too big on me now !

- My double chin is gone !

-I get excited to weight myself, I swear I used to nearly get a panic attack thinking I was going to be weighed !

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I haven't even made it through the end of this thread....I'm crying too much to see right now!!

I am SO happy to find it -- I am going to read it EVERY day that I find myself discouraged!

Thank you ALL and God bless!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LeighaTR

      Four days post surgery. I am sipping as fast as I can and getting NO WHERE near the goal of 60 - 80 grams of protein or the 64 oz of liquids. I just feel FULL. I don't know if it can still be the gas build up (I would think by now that would be gone) but it is a struggle to drink. And so far I have not had the nausea or spasms and don't want to wander into that territory by pushing too hard with liquids. I about passed out today as it was my most "strenuous" day. Went from second story to basement for shower and I was sure I was going to pass out. Looking back on my last few days I have had a total of less than 1000 calories. Am I just not getting enough nourishment in me? Once again a friday where I can't get ahold of the doc until Monday rolls back around so I am hoping maybe someone here has some experience on how to keep energy going. I do have fibromyalgia too and that may be where some added fatigue comes into play. How did you all fair with the goals the week after surgery?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      2 days until I fly out to San Diego to have my Bypass Surg. in Tiajuana Mexico. Not gonna lie, the nerves are starting to surface. I don't fear the surgery itself, or the fact that I'm traveling alone, but its the aftermath that I'm stressing about the most, after this 8 week wait. I'm excited to finally be here, but I am really dreading the post surgical chapter. I know its going to be tough, real tough and I think I'm just in my head to much now that the day i here. Wish me luck, Hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones, and everything goes smoothly. Cant wait to give an exciting update,. If there is anyone else have a June bypass or even a recent one, Id love to have someone to compare war stories with. Also, anyone near San Antonio Tx? See ya soon with the future me. 💜
      · 3 replies
      1. Phil Penn

        Good Luck this procedure is well worth it I am down to 249.6 lb please continue with the process..

      2. Selina333

        I'm in Houston so kind of near you and had the sleeve in Dec. Down 61 lbs. Feeling better. Was definitely worth it. I hope the everything is going well for you. Update us when you can!

      3. Doughgurl

        I am back home after my bypass surgery in Tiajuana. I'm post op day 4. Everything went great! I guess I'm one of the lucky ones who have not encountered much pain at all, no nausea thus far and I'm having no problem keeping down broths and water. Thank you for your well wishes. I cant wait to keep up this journey and have a chance at better health and simply better quality of life. I know there will be bumps in the road ahead, and everything won't be peaches and cream, but at least I have a great start so far. 😍

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×