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Here are a few comments I came across on a random blog I saw on Facebook regarding discussing weight.

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This is definitely an amazing journey. For so long I just wanted to be at the end of it, but now I am enjoying the process so much (except for the Mayonnaise incident last Thursday) that I don't want it to end. Which is good, but it won't!!

As for bat wings -- my trainer said mine will go away as weight comes off, but he has me doing some extra arm work now too. He even noticed I'm getting a "biceps line"!!!

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Most of the people I'm around today - didn't know me before I had my first surgery for the lapband 8 years ago - so they still see me as being overweight. Those like my family, and the friends I had in PA before moving to Texas really notice it and comment on it. They are all supportive - those that I've made down here though, just kinda go - oh you're going to the gym... have you lost any weight? and when I tell them they just nod their heads and go well I'm sure if you work harder you'll lose more. Makes me miss my friends up north more :P

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Hot Damn you look great! I love the Bob cut on you... I plan on cutting to a bob also if I get an issue with thinning (fingers crossed, none yet)

I have been fat and thin both. I lost to under 150 lbs with the band, and I definitely got the attention you mention. Door held, strangers in the store striking up a conversation, etc... I attribute some of that to weight, but I think the way you carry yourself after losing that weight also has a lot to do with it. That new confidence boost puts a brighter sparkle in your eye, an easier smile, and a little extra pep in your step. People naturally respond to this!

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@@LisaPunkinHead I'm glad you are enjoying it! I must have missed the mayo incident?! My husband is bringing me home the Bowflex Blaze tonight so we shall see how that thing goes. I'd love to get my arms in shape on my own and save the money!

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True all true! I'm loving the BOB :) thank you!

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@ Well those bastards!! ;)- I finished a nursing contract in PA last year. It's a Lovely place!

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Elode you look amazing!!

And it's very strange that some people in your life wouldn't acknowledge your weight loss success? It's like they aren't happy for you or that they wanted you to remain big (for whatever reason).

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@@wheezysmom First, Thank you! I don't know? Why would anyone want someone to stay big and unhealthy?! People are strange creatures.

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
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      Three months and four days ago... I was in Costa Rica having a life changing surgery! Yesterday we had a followup visit with Dr. Esmeral via video chat and this morning my middle number changed.  I'm down 47lbs and two pants sizes. I can wear a Large tshirt for the first time in like... 14 years! Woot!! Everything is going great. I have zero regrets. I went down to the riverwalk with a friend and walked 2 miles on Monday without even getting fatigued. And no more snoring or chugging pickle juice for crazy leg cramps! I need to go to the gym more... I'm making new shirts next week so that will motivate me. LOL But I'm also just not as TIRED all the time! I have a LONG way to go...but seeing the progress on the scales and in the mirror is a huge motivator!! Thank you all for cheering me on and supporting me!!
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