Since I've gained more weight my sex life with my forever man has just been like Blah! We've been together for 8 years and he tells me and I know he loves me but misses the freak inside me. I just feel so silly trying sometimes and others hell I can't breathe with legs flipped and turned every where. Today he just went to bed cuz of the struggle lol but I'm just as fustrated as him!

He says when I loose the weight he scared I'm going to change... Yay! Imma want to engage more! I'm sexually fustrated!

Just want to get things right ...

I totally understand! On my back I feel like my neck is choking me and turned around I cant get the spots that need it. There is just so much of me. 30 lbs ago I was way more into it! My husband loves me no matter what, but I am looking forward to more fufillment!

I can also relate.. it hurts to be on top.. and I don't feel very sexy in any position anymore..

I feel you. Just today I felt like boo boo while having sex. Everything was bouncing up and down. I think it's very unattractive. My husband is sweet and supporting but I know he must see what I feel.

When I loose the weight I hope everything improves. Though he says he doesn't want me to loose too much weight. I'm not sure how to take that.

Hang in there.

I feel you. Just today I felt like boo boo while having sex. Everything was bouncing up and down. I think it's very unattractive. My husband is sweet and supporting but I know he must see what I feel.

When I loose the weight I hope everything improves. Though he says he doesn't want me to loose too much weight. I'm not sure how to take that.

Hang in there.

I feel you ????! I know he feels me being uncomfortable. Things in the way taking extra time to change a position and by then it's like ugh.. For me! I miss me and want me back

How do you really feel when he says I don't want you to loose to much weight?

My husband and I sex life is great, I just feel that he would be even more turned on when I loose the weight. So I feel ya

After my husband wls within the month. . The freak came out .. guess he felt more confident in doing extra moves .. I'm not complaining ???? - hopefully after my wls I can be at his level