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Hi Tiana,

My date is also June 22nd! I am super excited, nervous, and a little impatient. I joined this forum when I scheduled my first appointment and I have found it very helpful, but I haven't posted anything. No one knows about my surgery except my husband. I would love to be your buddy!

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Hi there! My date is 7/21! I totally need a buddy!

Great! Have you finished all of your appointments? I go back for my pre-op appointments next week.

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Hi! I have finished all of my classes, but have one more medical appointment left with my Hematologist. I have a mild blood clotting disorder. I have been cleared, but just need labs done. I'm also pending insurance approval, though I am a BMI of 40; so should be approved! ????

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I started this journey with the intention of doing the sleeve, but changed my mind to RNY after my appt with the surgeon. I feel like i need the negative feedback of dumping to stay away from bad choices in order to be successful. Why did you choose RNY?

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I started this journey with the intention of doing the sleeve, but changed my mind to RNY after my appt with the surgeon. I feel like i need the negative feedback of dumping to stay away from bad choices in order to be successful. Why did you choose RNY?

I was also convinced that I wanted the sleeve until my initial consultation. I have a history of acid reflux so the sleeve would probably make my life miserable. I started trying to make little changed now so it won't be so hard later. I never thought it would be so hard not to eat and drink at the same time.

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Yay! Message me maybe we can be Facebook friends I don't check this much

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I added you. I'm hard to find lol

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Hi, my name is Stacey and I would love to have a buddy to go through this journey with. My surgery is July 7th and I'm really nervous and excited.

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Hi! My surgery date is July 28th. I am anxious and looking for a buddy to go through this process with as well ????

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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