Hello everyone. I've joined this site about 2 days ago and its been a blessing to me. I'm very new to the bariatric surgery journey. I had my physical exam a couple of weeks ago and then my PCP referred me to the Bariatric program here at Kiaser in southern California. I've done researching since the referral on what type of surgery l would benefit most from because I was originally gonna do the band and I decided that without knowing little about it. However upon joining this site and reading others experience and did research on my own I feel I would benefit most from the sleeve.

I'm pre diabetic and pre high cholesterol with a BMI OF 41 my mother recently died from heart disease at 57 and afterwards I read her medical charts and all of her sickness was contributed to morbid obesity. Sure she was a large woman I see large woman who lives long lives. Out of my own ignorance I was suddenly woken up and realize I needed to be healthier for my son and myself. I've been so excited that I was gonna embark on this life changing journey (nervous but excited, normal right?) Then I began telling my grandmother about me might wanting to do This and she has been against it from the jump!

She just know what she heard......mostly complications which we all know there is some risk which I've come to realize it's worth the risk for a healthier life. I don't wanna start pill popping I want to start doing better now and what more better way. Then I told a friend (one who just judge folks and gossip) she was like "omg I can't believe you doing that I'm scared for you" I explained but not very supportive. I told a family member and they were unsupportive. I originally told my bestie but she work with 2 banders and she often tells of them vomiting during work and one is having complication. My bestie is a good friend, she doesn't think I need it but she said she would support me either way, so she may be the only one who knows. She will accompany me on surgery day.

Anyways long story short I have no support I wish I wouldn't have even told them but I decided now to not mention it any more, if they ask I'm gonna have them thinking I'm not getting it anymore because I don't want them in my business if they are non supportive.

So I'm blessed to have joined this site you all have been helpful in your own way. Just reading others past and current situation has made all the difference. God bless you all

Congrats on making the decision for YOU and YOUR SON! People are always going to judge what they don't know! My mom passed at 56 as well die to morbid obesity. I was just diagnosed with diabetes and high blood pressure... Plus other things since starting this process. We WILL do better and can do this. Don't let anyone discourage you.... Onward!!!

@@ThruChristICan All the best to you on this journey to great health and long life. I had my sleeve surgery last Thursday. I never waivered. I knew what I wanted last year, I jumped through a years worth of hoops, and got what I wanted. I am recovering now at home, and have no regrets. Keep reading. The Pre-gastric sleeve forums are great, lots of questions and lots of answers and advice. Today I am 4 days post op, and I had tomato Soup with skim milk (not water) mixed in, (3 tablespoonsful) And I feel wonderfully "satisfied". I've been wondering when I would know if I was full or hungry. Today was the first time I felt it. I felt "satisfied". Satisfied enough to know it was enough, and not eat more. That is a BIG WIN!! Keep posting, asking questions, reading, and I will follow your journey!!

Congrats on making the decision for YOU and YOUR SON! People are always going to judge what they don't know! My mom passed at 56 as well die to morbid obesity. I was just diagnosed with diabetes and high blood pressure... Plus other things since starting this process. We WILL do better and can do this. Don't let anyone discourage you.... Onward!!!

Thanks for your support, yes I can and will do this! It was just hurtful that I wanted to do something positive and I didn't get support! But I'm encouraged to keep moving forward!

@@ThruChristICan All the best to you on this journey to great health and long life. I had my sleeve surgery last Thursday. I never waivered. I knew what I wanted last year, I jumped through a years worth of hoops, and got what I wanted. I am recovering now at home, and have no regrets. Keep reading. The Pre-gastric sleeve forums are great, lots of questions and lots of answers and advice. Today I am 4 days post op, and I had tomato soup with skim milk (not water) mixed in, (3 tablespoonsful) And I feel wonderfully "satisfied". I've been wondering when I would know if I was full or hungry. Today was the first time I felt it. I felt "satisfied". Satisfied enough to know it was enough, and not eat more. That is a BIG WIN!! Keep posting, asking questions, reading, and I will follow your journey!!

congrats to you on surgery glad your coming along well, I'm encouraged by you sharing your experience. Things as small as explaining how you felt satisfied is life changing for me, I'm so excited to be at that stage. I know mine will be well worth it and time will come soon enough.

You are correct YOU CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST who strenthens you. Congratulations on making the choice to take better care of yourself. You will get lots of love and support through this group. I had the bi-pass done October 1st and I am down 120 pounds. Feeling so much better. Keep loving yourself through this process and let us help you on your journey. Best Wishes

@ThruChristianICan

I'm 2wks post Gastric Sleeve surgery.

My advice to you & I pray to God you listen.

* Don't rush this life changing decision.

* Research the good, the bad & the ugly!

We are all here to support you & answer any questions that we can ????

@ThruChristianICan

I'm glad you're finding support here. I just joined a couple/three weeks ago, although have been researching the sleeve for three years. The 2015 statistics are certainly positive. Congrats to you for deciding. I'm so close to setting an appointment, but I'm afraid.

I had a total thyroidectomy October 31st of last year, and I ended up being one of his fifth worst cases-my odds don't look good. Ha!

I had problems with anesthesia.

Anyway, I'm in southern Louisiana and considering my options.

Thanks for listening.

You are in the right place.

I'm so excited for you! Christ will be our strength when we are weak.

This forum is sooooo supportive. I am just beginning my journey and have been encouraged so much already.

I am looking forward to hearing about your progress????????????

You are in the right place.

I'm so excited for you! Christ will be our strength when we are weak.

This forum is sooooo supportive. I am just beginning my journey and have been encouraged so much already.

I am looking forward to hearing about your progress????????????

Thank you so much! I really appreciate you reaching out to me.