Hello All,

I was sleeved on 7/1/14 and initially lost 50lbs but have since gained 20 of those pounds back. I feel like i have completely failed myself and i don't know if it is too late to turn back and be successful. I could really use some help if anyone is willing to offer support.

Thank you all for listening,

Jackie

Thanks for the extra info, jackersducky.

You've gotten some great advice already. I like that you're going back to see your surgical / NUT team. That's a great move.

It bothers me considerably (more than it should ) that you and your fiance are living with two other people who keep your kitchen a mess.

Sounds like it's time to lay down the apartment housekeeping law. Their behavior would be unacceptable to me.

Good luck to you on making your environment a safer place to become healthy. Only you know what's required on that front, so I'll not make any other specific suggestions.

Best wishes.

My Doctor and Nutritionist have only ever instructed me to try and eat at least 90 grams of protien a day they have never given me any calorie goals.

When you are given instructions you find vague from doctor's and/or medical staff, I find it best to ask for specific examples. Most bariatric programs can provide or at least direct you to where to get sample menus. As for eating during the day. Pack your lunch and Snacks.

It's never to late. If I were you I would get with my bariatric team and devise a plan to get you back on track