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<p>Do I not understand what boylove means? I wish this post would be taken off if it means sex between men and boys . That is too much for me.</p> <p>edie</p>

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Well, there isn't any rule forcing you to look at it. If you don't want to, don't. It has no pictures or anything like that in it, it was simply posted to get discussion going. Sort of a "That's disgusting" post, IMO.

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<p>Do I not understand what boylove means? I wish this post would be taken off if it means sex between men and boys . That is too much for me.</p> <p>edie</p>

Have you actually read the original and subsequent posts? There is certainly no one promoting this group. In fact, every post so far (mine included) have expressed some degree of shock and disgust. Besides, this is the "Rants & Raves" section. Like Lauren said, if you don't want to read it, don't.

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where are the moderators?

If this site were one that was not family friendly, with a focus on health and wellness perhaps but BOYlove? C'mon!

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I could understand the outrage if that thread was actually endorsing the practice of pedophilia. It's isn't, though. Every single post in the thread is expressing absolute disgust with it. How is that not acceptable?

And again, if you hate the thread and think it is improper, don't look at it. It's really that simple.

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I could understand the outrage if that thread was actually endorsing the practice of pedophilia. It's isn't, though. Every single post in the thread is expressing absolute disgust with it. How is that not acceptable?

And again, if you hate the thread and think it is improper, don't look at it. It's really that simple.

Because at some point someone should decide the customers don't want it on the menu. Rocky Mountain Oysters are still Bull's Balls no matter what you call it.

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Because at some point someone should decide the customers don't want it on the menu. Rocky Mountain Oysters are still Bull's Balls no matter what you call it.
And the customers don't have to order Rocky Mountain Oysters if they don't want to. The restaurant can still serve them to the customers that do.

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Rocky Mountain Oysters are still Bull's Balls no matter what you call it.

Well, now that offends me..

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The post is sharing a website, it is not condoning a practice, spamming another URL, tricking anyone into blindly following a link, etc. As stated, and as the posts have ensued, it's fair game for RnR. Many topics around sex and deviate practices have taken place here. This really isn't that different.

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Here is the Rants and Raves intro.....

LBT Rants and Raves *** Off-Topic DEBATE AREA *** Want debate? Get it here. Gripe, complain, moan, fight, rant and rave. Enter at your own risk!

There is no inappropriate topic for R&R. Just like it says, enter at your own risk. And once you're there, if you don't like something, don't keep clicking on it.

I am disgusted by the whole "boy love" thing, too but I am equally opposed to censorship.

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I guess boylove ,a monster penis and busting virgin vagina's and rectums just all go under the same category.

I just need to ignore them .

Ok

edie

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Im offended by it as well. And I wonder why someone would want to post something so gross. I agree with you Edie. Im not for censorship but I think in this case it would be appropriate. Gross. Theres just something yucky about the way it was thrown out there.. hmm. Gross.

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Because at some point someone should decide the customers don't want it on the menu. Rocky Mountain Oysters are still Bull's Balls no matter what you call it.

Here's part of what Wikipedia has to say about Rocky Mountain Oysters.

Rocky Mountain oysters, mountain oysters, prairie oysters, Montana tendergroin or swinging sirloin are culinary names given to boar or bull testicles. They are usually peeled, coated in flour, pepper and salt, sometimes pounded flat, then deep-fried. Boar (hog) "Mountain oysters" or "Rocky Mountain oysters" are served in some Mid-west areas such as in Illinois, and Iowa.

So, this proves that "Rocky Mountain Oysters" are not ONLY Bull's Balls. I like to think of them more as "Swinging Sirloin." It's the "pounded flat" part that gets me, if you see what I mean.

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Censorship and protecting children cannot be equated.

I have used the process provided by the website to report the thread as inappropriate.

I assume that the process is there for a reason.

It is not true that "anything goes" or that procedure would not be offered.

Thank you for tolerating my right to express my opinion to the moderators. Just click off if you do not like it.

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Censorship and protecting children cannot be equated.

I have used the process provided by the website to report the thread as inappropriate.

I assume that the process is there for a reason.

It is not true that "anything goes" or that procedure would not be offered.

Thank you for tolerating my right to express my opinion to the moderators. Just click off if you do not like it.

I see your point, there are a lot of child lap-banders here who need protection. (And I mean that in a jocular, friendly way). And by the way, I fully and completely support your right to ask for censorship.

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