ive been heavy all my life and having sex (sorry blunt) just wasnt all that fun. too much fat on me, didnt find myself attractive, and so on. but now that ive lost a good amount of weight...im likin it so much more now. its easier and not as hard. i guess cuz i can move easier. anyone else feel that way? i know its a crazy topic but hey its the girls room!

I had a decrease in desire after surgery and I was thinking this was permanent. I was just so focused on the mechanics of healing and eating, and my response wasn't what it used to be.

But now I feel like I'm more horny than ever. And I just like changing positions, I last longer and feel like I'm more flexible. Definitely a big improvement in an area I didn't think could improve!

How long were you told to wait until you could have sex after surgery?

It's up to you. When you feel comfortable and can get into a position that works for you without sraining your stomach too much, go for it!

Can you share why this book is so great? What does the book tell you ?

not sure what you are asking. maybe look at reviews on amazon?

i thought the book was very knowledgeable and enjoyed the info in it. H and i found it esp fun to read together.

gomekast: pillows! hot tubs! showers! more cushioning on your bed ( foam pad). recliner, get creative and be happy.