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Linda, you mentioned getting free samples. How do we go about doing that? Do you have address's for different ones?

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toler48, do let us know. And good luck with your journey. Going to Colorado was annoying, especially since it just didn't seem right to have to travel to another state to have a necessary procedure done. But in the end it was so worth it! Both of my knees were bad and I hoped that losing weight would help. It didn't, so I had my first one done in late January and the second one will be done this Friday. Three big surgeries in less than a year isn't easy, but so far so good. I do think losing the weight has made my recovery from the knee surgery easier.

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My surgery date is just 3 weeks away, yet I'm still waiting for official approval from my insurance company. I have been having an ongoing problem with this since January and now that it's getting down to the wire, I'm getting nervous! My story probably isn't unique, but I find it pretty ridiculous. I work full time at a local hospital and have my insurance through them. My hospital began a Bariatric program last year so I jumped at the chance to go to a seminar and begin the process to eventually have a VSG. I called my insurance company and was assured that they (Aetna) would pay for this surgery after a $250 deductible. Awesome! I began the program and after a few weeks, my navigator called me to tell me that my insurance has hit a snag. For employees of my hospital Aetna won't pay for surgery not done at a hospital without a Center of Excellence designation, including my own. The program at my hospital is too new to qualify for that yet. I called and asked about other hospitals in the area. Sure, I can have it done, but it will be out of network and the bulk of the cost will be all mine. Amazingly, my hospital has had all this fanfare about the Bariatric program beginning, ALL employees have had to go through "obesity sensitivity" training, and there are posters about it all over the hospital. My surgeon has appealed to administration and administration has appealed to Aetna to drop that requirement in my case and possibly some others. After months of talks, they are still at a standstill. Can you say frustrating??

I have a BMI of 40, I've had diabetes for 41 years (insulin dependent), hypertension, have CAD with a stent in one of my coronary arteries, and recently found to have severe sleep apnea found during my sleep study I had as part of preop testing. I'm currently using a CPap. My health has been very good until the last few years, thanks to the ravages of diabetes, and even though I've been on a healthy eating regimen, weight loss has been slow to nil. I need this surgery! My husband has fantastic insurance, but adding me to his would cost over $900 a month. Not an option!

If this doesn't go through I will go to Plan B: wait until December when I turn 65 and go through Medicare. It's not what I want, but at least it will be there (I hope!) if I need it.

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Its mindboggling and i think they do it just to get us riled up. Hartfird told me i am NOT COVERED BY ANYONEZ AND it doesn't matter what the insurance pole tell me. I MUST get the more invasive procedure. Yale told me oh my your ins7rance is golden. You can have whatever you want and then offered only the bypass. No thanks i will pay for VSG. Bingo, they are funding the whole thing. Duh

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insurance is crazy, I waited a whole year from start to finish with insurnce and all kinds of appointments.. so i understand how depressing it is to want something so bad and have to wait so long for it.. but once it comes down to the wire and the operatiion is here you will feel reborn. and be so happy you finally had it done. You are going to have many ups and downs but hang in there its all worth it and everyone on this sight is here to help you and answer your questions.. we have been there.. good luck to all .

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I got my new patient forms today. Seminar is tomorrow night. Baby steps but still steps.

Don't know for sure about insurance yet, hope to find out more tomorrow night.

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the seminar s are good. you will learn a lot at it..

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Well fudge! Seminar tonight has been canceled. Seems there are surgery conflicts or something.

On the bright side, when they called to say it had been canceled, they said that the Doc is going to wave the copay for my consultation on May 1. That is very nice of them.

So I wait a little longer, sigh.

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Sorry that your seminar was cancelled. If they don't jerk us around one way, they do it another. Hang on. It is worth it.

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Oh no! Update ......today is 2 week anniversary of post op!

I have hit " onederland". Down 21 pounds but who is counting! LOL!

Feeling proud! It has been years!!

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Congrats!! You should be proud!

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Awesome, Patsy! Keep up the good work!

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Just a quick update on my dilemma... it looks like Aetna will relent on the center of excellence requirement but I still don't have any solid reassurance yet. My surgeon says forge ahead! My EGD is scheduled for April 29, the same day I start my five day preop liquid diet. I'm still on the schedule for a May 4th sleeve so I am finishing up my paperwork for medical leave this week. I'm keeping my fingers crossed! ????????????

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It's funny that they insist on making you go through a psychological screening ... and then DRIVE YOU CRAZY with the insurance thing.

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bubbletoes, I am keeping my fingers crossed for you. Im sure your doctor expects things to go ok or he wouldn't have gave you the green light . keep me posted :)

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    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
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    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
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      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

    • CaseyP1011

      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
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