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Needing Motivation and support from fellow banders!

I'm really needing a support system. I've had my band for 3 years and lost 100 lbs! I was doing amazing and feeling great. Life got hectic and my depression started to kick in and I've gained 50 lbs back and I'm feeling so lost. So the end of last year I had major health issues and was hospitalized, I could not swallow the antibiotics because my body was a mess and had to have my band unfilled a fair amount. At that point I was down 80 but up 20 from my lowest band weight. Then my new health insurance started January 1st and does not cover anything for my band so I just figured I could do this on my own. Obviously not....I'm scheduled for my next fill in a few weeks. I'm dreading the dr's reaction to my failure and I can't seem to find the willpower and motivation I once had to eat healthy and work with my band.

I just need a friend that understands and some positive words. I have messed up and I failed my band but I'm ready to work with my band and get back to being healthy and eating right. Please share your struggles, some positive words and help me through this! My family and fiancé are so amazing but they don't truly understand and I need someone to relate to...

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I got my soup and protien shakes for the next 2 days for my liquids... I'm not sure I'll do liquids at dinner, but I'm going to make the effort (I tend to always cheat with the 2 days of liquid diet after a fill). I logged my breakfast and lunch in MFP already and I'm drinking my water...

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Ok let's do this! My fill is next Friday and I'm so ready for it! Good luck on everything this week, you can do it. We just moved in January so I feel your stress there. My fiancé has an interview tomorrow so good luck to both of you tomorrow. :)

I'm ready to start today! I'm waiting to get a fill right now! Let's get back on this bandwagon. I gained 7 lbs since I was here in Jan! Not terrible but NOT good! So ready to get this started.<br><br> I have 2 job interviews tomorrow, I close on my house on Friday and move on Saturday! Here's hoping me and my band can handle it all!

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