OK I'm gonna vent a little. I'm a person that never gets sick. And I can set up an alarm w my TOM it's always on time. As I am preparing for my surgery April 10 my TOM disappeared, (no chances of me being pregnant at all) I only spotted. Then I feel like I'm getting a cold. And now that I'm doing my preop diet I'm waking up w bad headaches and I can't take meds. Maybe I'm stressing too much. I've never had a missed TOM.

Sounds like stress to me... don't worry about it... I think you are perhaps unusual that you were always so regular. The body and mind are very intertwined and sometimes collude to confuse us!

I'm thinking is stress too. I'm just hoping it doesn't come during my surgery or right afterwards. I will have so much to worry about then to have to deal w that too.