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Bad habits have been sneaking back into my life. I have great restriction with meals, but I have no issues grazing and snacking. I am just over 3 months out and I tolerate pretty much eveything which is a blessing and a curse. I am still losing weight, but I am concerned about my old evening snack habits coming back. I know I need to just not snack. It's not that I get hungry after dinner. I rarely get all that hungry. But I WANT to eat. My desire for Snacks is high. I find myself thinking about food and mentally analyzing my fridge and cupboards, then finally going to get something. I keep lots of healthy snacks around, but I find myself grabbing the less healthy things that are in the house for my family. I guess I am just hoping that putting it out there will help me deal. Any advice from others that have struggled with head hunger would be helpful.

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Night eating was a big pre=op issue for me, so I had to decide that after supper dishes are done, the kitchen is closed. No Snacks in the bedroom, either. Bottled Water only through the night. It's rough, but I have to be hard on myself to win this battle.

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I am dealing with the same issue, grazing all the time is to easy. I like Miss Mac approach. I think I am going to do this as well.

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I get the night time snackies too. I've decided that if I must eat, it will be only beef Jerky. It works for me but my NUT says its a no no.

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My head hunger is the worst at night. Right now I'm on the preop diet and am allowing myself sugar free Jello as a treat. I'm glad someone else is having the same problem as I know it's going to be really hard to kick the habit after my surgery.

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Im not sure if this will work for you, but my therapist told me about a reinforcement technique that I started trying to counter the negative self-talk I do. I keep a rubber band around my wrist and anytime i catch myself being negative towards myself I pull it and let it go. I know it sounds a little crazy, but it has actually been working for me. Just thought I'd throw it out there. Ultimately, for me, I think I need to just find something else to take up my attention at night to distract me from wanting Snacks.< /p>

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AND what are you snacking on? Liver? Fried chicken? Brocolli???

I bet it's simple carbs or sugars. And if so, ask yourself if you might be "addicted" to 'em.

If so... well check the "carbs and cocaine" article in the research section.

My only solution was go Cold Turkey from sugar and simple carbs period. Hard for a few days, but all OK now...

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AND what are you snacking on? Liver? Fried chicken? Brocolli??? I bet it's simple carbs or sugars. And if so, ask yourself if you might be "addicted" to 'em. If so... well check the "carbs and cocaine" article in the research section. My only solution was go Cold Turkey from sugar and simple carbs period. Hard for a few days, but all OK now...

Oh, I most definitely think j am addicted to carbs. I did very well the first couple months, but once I was allowed to add more things into my diet, the carbs came back into my life. >_< I try to have something with Protein too sometimes. I know what I should be eating and not eating, but in the moment I don't care. Then after I am made at myself. But then the next moment I am snacking again. It's ridiculous and it's all my own fault, but still hard habits to break.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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