I am scheduled for surgery in early February. I am having the surgery done when I travel to Arizona for work. This is on purpose so that no one knows I am having the surgery. I am single, almost 30 and a professional. I am ready to make some real changes in my life and don't think it's anyone else's business. Perhaps I am also afraid of failure and don't want family or friends to witness that.

I don't think there is a right or wrong way to go thru lb surgery. I want to share the good news with everyone..I wish someone would have told me about the success they had with this surgery. I hope, by sharing the good news, I am able to help someone else, maybe even save some lives. Well that's just me and no matter which road we choose..we all have hundreds of supporters thru Bariactric Pal. Good luck to all. I am cheering for your success.

I told my job I was having an outpatient procedure but am a very private person about my health and would prefer to tell my unit I was going on vacation, Because of HIPPA my supervisor couldn't ask me and I didn't share, No one even questioned me when I returned this week to work. I told my husband, parents and brother and NONE of them were supportive of the surgery. They didn't think I needed it. Ummm 240 pounds and climbing and plenty of failed attempts I'd say I needed it. I told a close friend who is supportive and thank God for her,

I don't know your age, but as a 70 year old, I can tell you, that you extra weight does have health consequences. My back, hips, and knees all need replacements or surgery. I'm one of the lucky ones as my genetics are good and so I don't have blood pressure, cholesterol, or diabetes. So you will save yourself by doing lb now instead of later. I was in the same boat as you, no one thought I needed surgery. I almost missed the opportunity to help myself. Wishing you all the best and I think you are making a wise decision. Let me know how you are doing. I will be banded the 27th of Jan. I am so excited and looking forward to a healthier body and life style.