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I've just joined this forum.

I'm Italian, 61 years old.

I've been banded since may 10th 2011.

I've lost 50 kg (about 100 lbs) .

I've gained 5 kg back,but I think it is something that happens to most people.

My band is my best friend.

When I had my lap band surgery I knew it was the last chance life was giving me e that, if I failed, I would live (and die) as an obese.

This is the reason why I'm determined to make my band work.

Here in Italy, when there are no more chances left, we say "it's my last shore".

I hope you can help me not to give up..

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Ciao Rosetta! So glad you found this forum. There is a thread called "Hey Banders" in the 100+ to lose category -- a lot of long time banders posting on there. We are all a little mixed up because the site has recently been redesigned and they are still getting the kinks out.

I am newly-banded and very excited to be out of food jail. I'm 52 and live in the north (an hour and a half from Boston) where it is very cold this morning. Troppo freddo! My Italian is terrible these days but I love Italy and lived there for a year a very long time ago. Sending you best wishes......

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Welcome Rosetta! :D I am a new bandster, four days, today. Recovering well and learning how to hang with my new Silicone Friend. :D It sounds as if your band has been a great help to you and that you just need a little kickstart to get back on track. People on this forum are so helpful and supportive and will uplift and support you in your efforts to continue in your success and healthy lifestyle. I have found this forum and the wise words of so many of the members here invaluable.

I have always wanted to visit Italy, maybe one day I will be lucky enough to be able to do so. Rome... florence... *sigh* :D

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Ciao Rosetta!

Good luck on your journey! I'm post op 11 months and I'm still learning the ins and outs of lapband surgery!

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:rolleyes: Welcome to our banded world. We wish you a smooth road to good health. Keep us posted on how it goes. . . . . .

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Stick around, we fight like relatives but we're still friends in the end.

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Hello Rosetta welcome, I am 65 years old. Lapband was the perfect choice for me. Best wishes to you. If you have any questions or need help just ask. Ilene

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HI Rosetta,

I am married to a USA Italian. I am 65 years old, have been a lapbander for 4 years and 2 months. I have lost 100 lbs, and gaiend back some. i am trying real hard to stay under 1000 calories a day to jump start my own weightloss. I was not always fat, but afte my 30's adn a hysterectomy, I gradually gained weight to top 245. As a young girl I ws always"pleasingly plump, as they said back in the 50's) but always felt fatter than the other grls. I guess that you would say that I, too, wa at my last shore! I an't say that it was easy, fo rme it wsn't, but it sure was the best! Welcome to our site, Karen

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

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