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Hi good morning my surgery is so close wow is.next week.. Sept 26 :) im happy.. Im nervous.. I have lots of mix feelings and just cant stop thinking how my life is going to change.. I started at 334 my doctor told me to go under 320 before surgery which i did :) i weigth 318 yesturday :) now im just waiting for that day :)

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Congratulations on 16 pounds already lost. You will do fine. We have all been through this and what you are feeling is natural. You are going to love the new you!

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Aaaawwww thank u :)

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Whoo! You're already doing great on 16 pounds lost! I personally feel that of you don't question this decision just a little bit then you haven't thought it through enough if that makes sense. It's just big decision. You're on the right track!

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congrats on your wt loss....everyone has mixed emotions before surgery including me, and like they told me and now i will tell you....you would not be normal of you didnt have these feeling...just breathe and focus on your journey ahead....you will be fine.....xxxx

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Hi good morning my surgery is so close wow is.next week.. Sept 26 :) im happy.. Im nervous.. I have lots of mix feelings and just cant stop thinking how my life is going to change.. I started at 334 my doctor told me to go under 320 before surgery which i did :) i weigth 318 yesturday :) now im just waiting for that day :)

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I am feeling the same way too, my surgery is on the 30 and I have been happy scared hasn't really hit me yet this next week IM anticipating on being a nervous wreck lol! good luck

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Thank everyone for ur support :)

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Good luck to you!!

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Fajej Good morning and thank u :)

Yes im so happy and anxious tomorrow is my surgery :) ill leave everything in God hands.

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Hope all went well with your surgery. Be blessed!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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