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1. Normal blood pressure and stopping those medications.

2. Shop in "normal" stores. I am only 5'2" and at 224 lbs it is very hard to shop and look cute.

3. My secret of all dreams is to get pregnant next year and have a baby. I have been married 15 years and never been pregnant. I am 41 so I am already pushing it but it is my most inner desire. Having gone thru multiple rounds of invetro and suffering from pcos, I really pray and hope this is my cure and answer.

4. To feel sexy again.

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Hi! My biggest dream is to be able to wear shorts/skirt without feeling ashamed that people are looking at how thick my legs are(also the fact my thighs rubs each other). But my biggest dream of all is being able to go to different stores and not having to quickly see their biggest size in store. Yesterday I went to the mall and I saw all the colorful clothes, smaller size that I will be able to use next summer. I cannot wait!! :rolleyes: WAY TO EXCITED :rolleyes:

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Hi! My biggest dream is to be able to wear shorts/skirt without feeling ashamed that people are looking at how thick my legs are(also the fact my thighs rubs each other). But my biggest dream of all is being able to go to different stores and not having to quickly see their biggest size in store. Yesterday I went to the mall and I saw all the colorful clothes' date=' smaller size that I will be able to use next summer. I cannot wait!! :rolleyes: WAY TO EXCITED :rolleyes:[/quote']

Agreed. I can't wait to steal all my sisters size 10 clothes that are adorable! I'm sick of being 23 getting "Woman Within" catalogs. When I'm at my goal size I'm going to order every clothing item from every normal catalog I get. ;-)

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@iamworthit' date=' I am praying for you and to give you hope, every woman I know that has had WLS, got pregnant well after losing all the weight, heck, it even scared me, LOL....It's your season girl, you will have your child.[/quote']

You are so sweet thank you! I accept your prayers and will stay positive. :)

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Will this be the 2nd weight-loss surgery for anyone else? I am having a band removed and converting to RNY.

I am also a band to bypass. I don't have my date yet but I hope it's June. I'm already approved from the insurance company so I'm just waiting on my Drs. Office to give me a date. Fingers crossed!

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The results I want from surgery are:

1) No more meds! and Diabetes reversed!

2) I want to put on a shirt without a "busted can of biscuits" (I passed the "muffin top" long ago)

3) I want to walk into a normal store and buy my clothes instead of the fat lady store.

I know that there are many, many more things that I want to do and feel, but this is a start.

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The results I want from surgery are:

1) No more meds! and Diabetes reversed!

2) I want to put on a shirt without a "busted can of biscuits" (I passed the "muffin top" long ago)

3) I want to walk into a normal store and buy my clothes instead of the fat lady store.

I know that there are many' date=' many more things that I want to do and feel, but this is a start.[/quote']

Omg I love the way you put the " busted can of biscuits"!! How cute! Totally made me smile!

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Omg I love the way you put the " busted can of biscuits"!! How cute! Totally made me smile!

Glad I could make you smile! I also just thought of something else....a normal size bra!!!!

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I go to Walmart and walk by the bra section and see these cute bras for like 8 bucks. 8 bucks for a bra!! The thought to me isnt even fathomable!! No more of these huge expensive ugly bras for me. Cant wait!!

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I go to Walmart and walk by the bra section and see these cute bras for like 8 bucks. 8 bucks for a bra!! The thought to me isnt even fathomable!! No more of these huge expensive ugly bras for me. Cant wait!!

I have always had big boobs even when I was thin. In fact my nickname when I was young was " betty boop". But 40DD isn't like a 32D. I want the sexy little demi cup where my husbands eyes pop Outta his head! :)

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I want to play on my church softball league. I want to exercise without feeling like I might die.

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I want to play on my church softball league.

I want to exercise without feeling like I might die.

I want to play with my 3 yr old

I want to shop at the Avenue

I want to see shirts in my size and not have to go to the special rack

I want to fly with no seatbelt extender

I want to ride a carnival ride with my husband

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I fully know what u mean!! I cant wait til i can wear something sexy and actually feel that way! I have a wonderful gf but she weighs literally 100 lbs. She tells me im beautiful all the time but im so consciouse of the size difference. I wanna be with her and not have that in the back of my mind.

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I fully know what u mean!! I cant wait til i can wear something sexy and actually feel that way! I have a wonderful gf but she weighs literally 100 lbs. She tells me im beautiful all the time but im so consciouse of the size difference. I wanna be with her and not have that in the back of my mind.

I feel that way about my hubby. He's tall and thin. I'm tall and twice his size

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