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I kinda feel like a hypocrite and kinda like I don't belong as much now. My path has branched off so drastically. No weight change in over a week or more now. I'm still technically obese at 160lbs so I get upset I may never get to goal even after this baby. God has his plans and reasons and as happy and just in awe of this baby i am..I can't help but kinda wish it could have waited a few more months! One oops! I can't wait to see this baby on my us appt but I can scarcely believe this has happened. I'm not sure where I go now. I'm down 53lb since surg. Felt stronger and better than I have in probably almost all of my entire adult life..and now..I'm struggling to keep fluids and foods down even with Zofran. I keep trying to make the gym work and it does help in the mornings.. It's the evenings I seem to get the most unwell. I want to eat anything and nothing! Pregnancy cravings but can't indulge in them. Life sure has taken a weird turn for me. I just wish I felt as human as I felt a few

Weeks ago. Thanks for letting me vent..I know this all is my fault..just still kinda hard.

Life has taken a blessed turn for you my friend! Your main job now is to nourish that baby, not worry about having a great body. That will come AFTER baby! You WILL be a success; you just have a different path now. You can make goal after that precious baby is born. How did telling the family go?? Been thinking of you and hope you are well!

And you DO belong! Dont leave us cuz we need you here!

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Dear My Old Friend sleep,

Why dont you ever want to hang out with me anymore??

Sincerely, Dori

UGH!!

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Is anyone besides me losing their hair like crazy still? I can not believe that is is coming out by the handful every single day. I have easily lost 1/2 of my hair. It is so thin. I am very worried. I get my Protein in' date=' I take my Vitamins, I eat good (99.9% of the time). When is this going to slow down?[/quote']

My hair is coming out like crazy too. I had to resort to a full sew in weave. I've been told that this phase will pass. ***fingers crossed***

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Maybe its a girl :) thry say your sicker with a girl ...I've seen others post in this site that got pregnant shoryly aftet and they continued losing weight the whole pregnancy ....hope u start feeling better soon :)

SW 363lbs Surg Date 4/16/2013 CW 288lbs

:) idk maybe is a girl. Would be cute to have a girl finally! Thank u for your kind words :)

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Life has taken a blessed turn for you my friend! Your main job now is to nourish that baby' date=' not worry about having a great body. That will come AFTER baby! You WILL be a success; you just have a different path now. You can make goal after that precious baby is born. How did telling the family go?? Been thinking of you and hope you are well!

And you DO belong! Dont leave us cuz we need you here![/quote']

So I got blank cards and stuffed pics in them and wrote different little individual messages inside of them kinda with a riddle and the pics for them to figure it out. Was kinda hilarious seeing the looks on their faces. They were so shocked! My son is over 10 so it just never occurred to them I'd ever get pregnant again after all these years! They are all very happy and excited. My daddy and mama are hilariously so! It's been a good weekend overall if u don't count the morning sickness :)

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Krystal you are so tiny!! You are a skinny woman yay for you!

Jaye you look Fantastic as well!!

So happy for you both! ;-)

Please will you go and post your pics in the thread i started for pics of our april group? We post a lot in this thread and i for one lose track how all of us are progressing! Let's do it and then we can look at our progress as the months go by!

I love this group so so much and i am soo happy i got my op in April so that i am in this group!

Alaina i am so glad you had such a good weekend and could bring this wonderful news to your mom and dad, i am sure they are elated ;-)

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So I got blank cards and stuffed pics in them and wrote different little individual messages inside of them kinda with a riddle and the pics for them to figure it out. Was kinda hilarious seeing the looks on their faces. They were so shocked! My son is over 10 so it just never occurred to them I'd ever get pregnant again after all these years! They are all very happy and excited. My daddy and mama are hilariously so! It's been a good weekend overall if u don't count the morning sickness :)

Sounds like a special time! ♥♥

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Down 100 lbs from my highest weight! Woo hoo!

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Whoooohooo califmom!! That is WONDERFUL! Have you ever thought in your life that it is possible to lose 100 pounds?? I could never imagine that and now it is possible!

I will be joining you in 20 pounds! Hopefully before christmas oh man my weightloss is going so slow now!

So proud of you and glad for you, for all of you who've reached the 100 pound loss beacon, well done!

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Down 100 lbs from my highest weight! Woo hoo!

Awesome job girl! We should start a "DOWN 100" club! Its a great feeling huh?

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Cant wait until the 23rd. My back pain is back and not feeling well. I cant even stand up straight today. I feel a catch in the bones. It feels like they are stuck when I try to straighten up. Sitti g with ice and pain meds. Not a good day!

Plus I tried tilapia again and it is gonna come back up any minute.

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Oh no Dori, I am so sorry to hear this!! Not long now, lady. Counting the days with you! xxx

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Awesome job girl! We should start a "DOWN 100" club! Its a great feeling huh?

You know what I realized today...I know I have loat weight & am wearing smaller clothes but I don't feel smaller or see myself as smaller in the mirror. Maybe that's because before surgery I didn't "see" that I topped 300lbs either? I still have to lose 15 lbs to be "overweight" and 53 to be at a "normal" BMI.

Being tall sucks!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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