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I have always had a high sex drive and even more so now with the weight loss. My poor Hubby (and poor me)...he's the opposite...he doesn't usually want or initiate it!

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I have always had a high sex drive and even more so now with the weight loss. My poor Hubby (and poor me)...he's the opposite...he doesn't usually want or initiate it!

That's me too. My husband always says I'm attractive beautiful hot pretty whatever but he is just not in the mood. It makes me feel rejected.

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I'm in the same boat as the both of you. My hubby says I'm sexy and loves me but if i didnt initiate it i would not get it and i want it. My husband and I never had a bad sex life. The sex is great. But now that I have lost so much weight I definitely have more energy and ready to be more daring LOL he will look at me and say didn't we have sex the other night? You just don't get enough. I say nope. You would think they'd be happy

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I been attacking my husband everyday a few times in a role. I go out to buy or get something & I'm calling him on the phone just so we can have sex. If he's not around I have a personal"toy".. I seem not to get enough. If he's done here I go again. I can't get sex out of my mind. Is it age just turn 34 it is losing all this weight?

Omg! Im having this same issue. I few years younger than you and since the weightloss, me and my husband has been going at it like rabbits.

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Husbands are over rated. I'm married it def has its ups and DOWNS. I would rather be single losing a lot of weight. I would have dates back to back lol

I feel like that sometimes lmbo

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I been attacking my husband everyday a few times in a role. I go out to buy or get something & I'm calling him on the phone just so we can have sex. If he's not around I have a personal"toy".. I seem not to get enough. If he's done here I go again. I can't get sex out of my mind. Is it age just turn 34 it is losing all this weight?

Very lucky husbands

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Wow!!! I thought it was just me!!! My hubby is in paradise right now! He doesn't know what came over me but he is not complaining!!!

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Wow!!! I thought it was just me!!! My hubby is in paradise right now! He doesn't know what came over me but he is not complaining!!!

Lol

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That's me too. My husband always says I'm attractive beautiful hot pretty whatever but he is just not in the mood. It makes me feel rejected.

I feel the same way. I stopped trying. Im sorry I know its disappointing

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I'm fine with my wife's size but if RNY will increase her sex drive I'm gonna have her meet with my surgeon!! Jeeeze! In my case it's been 3 years! Last was when I was in the 300's, she always says, "I miss my big guy"

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I'm fine with my wife's size but if RNY will increase her sex drive I'm gonna have her meet with my surgeon!! Jeeeze! In my case it's been 3 years! Last was when I was in the 300's' date=' she always says, "I miss my big guy"[/quote']

Wow Frank. I'm sorry. I understand how you feel. I separated from my husband last August. Now he's dating a fairly heavy woman. When we were together, he was always hitting on the twiggy types. I think it's a self esteem thing. On his part.

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