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SO I JUST FOUND OUT IM HAVING SURGERY AUGUST 15th IM SO SCARED, MY MIND'S TRYING TO TALK ME OUT OF IT. IM EXCITED BUT AM FILLED WITH ANXIETY IS THERE ANY THING I CAN DO TO HELP. & I KNOW YOUR SUCCESS STORYS WILL HELP ME TOO!!

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I am in the same boat.

My Mind is going crazy. I had to try meditation last night. Just sitting in quiet and breathing

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Girls calm the nerves is normal but everything will be okay, we all do that day but when you see the result waoooo. I send the best of luck. God will be with you ;)

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Hi! Calm Down .. I Know It Is Normal To Be Afraid And Your Mind Will Come Up With The Most Outrageous What If? Scenerios, Believe Me...Lol ~ I've Had 4 C~Sections '79★'80★83★86 With My 4th Incision Bursting Open After A Week And Once That Happens They Can't Close You Back Up...You Have To Heal From The Inside Out. Then Gall Bladder Out In '91 Many Years Later And Lbs Then Lapband Installed 2010 And Removed In '11 now I Just Had The Gastric Bypass 7★23★12. I Am A Woman Walking Around This Earth Who Is ONE BIG SCAR TISSUE!!!! Ha Ha Did I Get A Smile? Bottom Line Is That If I Made It Through All These ~ Anyone Can Go Through This Particular Procedure, Just Do What Your Dr. Says And Ask Questions And Get Answers (Very Important) :-) Please Don't Worry! Take Care! Mermaidmarezy

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SO I JUST FOUND OUT IM HAVING SURGERY AUGUST 15th IM SO SCARED' date=' MY MIND'S TRYING TO TALK ME OUT OF IT. IM EXCITED BUT AM FILLED WITH ANXIETY IS THERE ANY THING I CAN DO TO HELP. & I KNOW YOUR SUCCESS STORYS WILL HELP ME TOO!![/quote']

You will be okay. Just keep positive people on your corner

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Your feelings are all normal... but in the end it is totally worth it. I do not regret it what so ever and would do it again if I had to !!!! Hang in there, ask questions, do research and get your support,..... you will do fine - GOOD LUCK :)

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SO I JUST FOUND OUT IM HAVING SURGERY AUGUST 15th IM SO SCARED, MY MIND'S TRYING TO TALK ME OUT OF IT. IM EXCITED BUT AM FILLED WITH ANXIETY IS THERE ANY THING I CAN DO TO HELP. & I KNOW YOUR SUCCESS STORYS WILL HELP ME TOO!!

We have the same surgery date! Its going to be amazing!

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I'm 52 and have been a truck driver for 35 years most people think I'm scary my wife says I'm a marshmallow. I was fine up till the day of surgery then started the what if game. 8 days after surgery I'm still here I have the best Doctor (ready for his name) not kidding -Dr Gandhi from Rochester,NY General Hospital.

You will be fine trust in your Doctor

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thank you everyone for you help. its helping to know everyone felt like this!!& im not going crazy over here lol.

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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