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I'd any one else feel loanly and all my there self??? I am post op two weeks to go and have a very mixed emotions! Xx

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Why do u feel this way....I kind of felt that way cause I wasn't seeing any results and I am 5 weeks post op and I have only lost 20lbs so I feel very discouraged right now!

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I'm 8 wks. post op and have felt lots of different emotions. I gave up 3 major friends in my life that were doing me harm... #1 food, #2 smoking, #3 diet soda (8 cans/day). Since I gave up my 3 favorite friends I did/do feel lost a bit. I have traded them for new friends who are health, good healthy food and a better way of life. It does get better as the days/weeks pass when your body heals and you start adjusting to life without the constant obsession with food.

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See cant even type correct I am pre op not post op! I am leading up to! Start milk diet on Monday! So getting very close! My hubby is the only person supporting me! I am scared witless! Sending my 4 kids over sea to family so I can recover in relative peace! We shall see!! Just a bag of emotions x

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When is your surgery? You have every right to be scared, I was extremely scared but wanted the battle with my weight to be over and done with. You have a support group here on RNY and your hubby and me :) THINK POSITIVE THOUGHTS :)

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Op is on the 22, I can't wait to battle my bulge head on! Think it's just anxiety never been away from all kids at once and I haven't really told anyone! But can't wait to feel normal! Lol! X

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My surgery date came up soooo quick, it took two months from when I went for a class at my surgeons office until surgery. My surgery was on April 9th and I did not tell alot of people either. Of course my family knew and a few close friends at work but that is about it. I am new to this site and it seems pretty supportive. EVERYONE has anxiety before surgery, I am having surgery on the 26th to remove my gallbladder, this surgery will be done by my gastric bypass surgeon. I just started to heal where the incisions were too. He said he will not make any new scars and use the same incision spots. I'm just not looking forward to more surgery expecially when I am feeling fantastic !!!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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      Three months and four days ago... I was in Costa Rica having a life changing surgery! Yesterday we had a followup visit with Dr. Esmeral via video chat and this morning my middle number changed.  I'm down 47lbs and two pants sizes. I can wear a Large tshirt for the first time in like... 14 years! Woot!! Everything is going great. I have zero regrets. I went down to the riverwalk with a friend and walked 2 miles on Monday without even getting fatigued. And no more snoring or chugging pickle juice for crazy leg cramps! I need to go to the gym more... I'm making new shirts next week so that will motivate me. LOL But I'm also just not as TIRED all the time! I have a LONG way to go...but seeing the progress on the scales and in the mirror is a huge motivator!! Thank you all for cheering me on and supporting me!!
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