I am 10 weeks out in love with my husband. I do want t o be with him sexually but since surgery I feel sooooooo tired that is really hard for me to be in the mood. I am always busy with the house and my daughter but it was the same as before nuthing has change except the surgery. Is this tiredness ever going away? Next appointment will ask my surgeon. Is there any subjestions please

I was pooped for about four months. Hubby should pick up some of the stuff you normally do so you are less tired when its time to have fun.. My opinion: nothing looks sexier than a guy doing housework, shopping, and riding herd on the kiddos.

Even if he doesn't help, you should feel better soon.

Lynda

Hi I too am exhausted alot but Im never to tired for that. Thank god. I m almost 6 weeks post op I think we need to find the right balance of food, and vitamins . You know important stuff, so I dont know how long its going to take. My advice to you is put your daughter to bed, and you go take a power nap an hour usually does it for me, then go take a nice shower and get ready for your hubby. Just a suggeston I always nap before, I never did prior to my surgery. I hope it helps , good luck to you, go enjoy a nice night ,you deserve it.

Thank you all. I never nap always wake up at 7am and go to sleep around 11:30pm. From now on I am going to take naps I thibk thats my problem. Thank you so much for responding

It goes away or minimizes more. I went through this as well, and while thankfully I don't have children yet, it was still difficult for me to really get excited about anything. Not just sexually, but pretty much anything. Once you begin upping your exercise routine you will have more energy and you will be back to normal and then some. This will pass... No worries!

Best of luck with everything!